What happens to the family business during a divorce?
The time, energy and effort it takes to build a family business can impact everyone in the household. Many people who have these businesses take considerable pride in their success. But that success can sometimes become a liability if the owners decide they’re going...
Continue ReadingAre retirement savings and pensions separate property?
Spouses contemplating divorce often have pressing questions about the process. They worry about what property they have to split with their spouses and how long it may take to recover financially after the end of a marriage. As an equitable distribution state, New Jersey...
Continue ReadingHow to prepare for divorce mediation
Preparing for divorce mediation can help you have a more efficient and smoother process. You don’t want to go to a session without knowing what to expect or having adequate details necessary for the discussion. Here is how you can prepare for divorce mediation:...
Continue ReadingConsiderations for social media during and after divorce
Social media is a place where people can share information about just about anything they’re interested in. Some people share even the small details of daily life, while others share only special milestones or vacation pictures. All of this might change if someone is...
Continue Reading4 communication tips for successful co-parenting
Co-parenting is generally challenging. Raising a child in two homes requires co-parents to go the extra mile. However, you can smooth your experience with effective communication. When you and your co-parent are on the same page about vital matters, you can reduce Here are...
Continue ReadingDomestic abuse and legal protections in New Jersey
Domestic abuse involves various behaviors used by one partner to control another. It can be violent or psychological. Recognizing these behaviors is crucial for seeking help and protection. In New Jersey, victims of domestic abuse can press criminal charges but also have civil legal...
Continue ReadingPopular ways to hide assets in a divorce
Hiding assets during a divorce is unlawful, but it does happen. If you are divorcing, it is worth remembering that your spouse could be one of those attempting to do it. While they probably aren’t, it would be unwise to discount the possibility entirely,...
Continue ReadingWhy have prenuptial agreements become more common?
Marital agreements were once relatively rare. Only rich, famous or particularly powerful people generally required that their partners sign contracts before marrying them. That has certainly shifted in recent years. Social attitudes about prenuptial agreements are far different than they were a few years...
Continue ReadingWhen dissipation of assets impacts the marital estate
Dividing property is often one of the biggest challenges during divorce. Spouses have to put together inventories of their resources and determine what they are worth. They then need to negotiate with one another to determine how the assets will be divided. In some...
Continue Reading3 tips to help you prepare for divorce mediation
Going through a divorce is a challenging time in a person’s life, but ending a marriage doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to deal with a contentious process. For some individuals who are divorcing, it’s possible to get the terms set through divorce mediation....
Continue ReadingAvoiding the risks of high-conflict co-parenting
When we think about child custody battles, images of heated courtroom exchanges and bitter disputes often come to mind. This perception is heavily influenced by TV shows, films and friends or family who have had similar experiences. However, it’s essential to remember that each...
Continue ReadingCan you reduce or end your alimony payments if you retire?
Your goals and priorities as you divorce likely depend in large part on your age and stage of life. If you’re among the increasing number of people divorcing in their 50s and older, one of those priorities is likely being able to retire financially...
Continue Reading2 ways to protect yourself financially during divorce
Your finances will likely be affected when going through a divorce, as some of your assets may be subject to equitable distribution. Besides, if you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse both had incomes, you are about to go into a one-income household. Therefore, you need...
Continue ReadingPotential reasons for child custody modifications
When the court issues a child custody order, it must be followed by the parents. The court considers what would be in the child’s best interests when determining how custody should be split. This includes both physical and legal custody. That said, modifications may...
Continue ReadingHow divorce mediation could benefit minor children
Divorcing spouses often find themselves disagreeing with one another. In some cases, their disputes may become so intense that litigation seems all but inevitable. However, even those experiencing high levels of conflict can potentially take control of the divorce process and resolve their disputes...
Continue Reading4 signs your soon-to-be ex-spouse may be hiding assets
Your spouse hiding assets during divorce can prevent fair division. That’s why it’s crucial to spot any missing assets on your spouse’s list or when a detail, such as income, is misrepresented. Uncovering hidden assets is integral to fair and equitable distribution. But how...
Continue ReadingWhen might child support modifications be necessary?
Child support is designed to ensure that a child’s financial needs are met after their parents separate. However, as circumstances change over time, child support orders may need to be adjusted. Child support modifications can be made when there is a significant change in...
Continue ReadingWho keeps an expensive ring during a divorce?
Engagement rings and wedding rings can be incredibly expensive, with the average cost exceeding $5,000. Some couples even spend $20,000 or more on an engagement ring. For high earners, expectations about the cost of an engagement ring often scale with income. A CEO earning...
Continue ReadingUsing ‘I’ statements to express feelings in mediation
Divorce is rarely painless. The legal and emotional complexities of the process often leave couples feeling unheard and misunderstood. Mediation offers a space for productive communication, especially when using “I” statements to articulate needs and feelings clearly. Facilitating a clearer, more empathetic communication Divorce...
Continue ReadingWho gets to keep the art in a divorce?
One of the most complex parts of divorce is the division of property. This can go one of two ways: if the parties are amicable, they may agree without needing the court’s involvement. However, if the parties are non-amicable, the court will step in...
Continue ReadingWhat is the role of a prenuptial agreement during divorce?
A prenuptial agreement is a marital contract negotiated before couples marry. Engaged people may spend weeks finessing the language and negotiating the terms that they decide to include in their prenuptial agreements. For many couples, prenuptial agreements serve as a deterrent to divorce and...
Continue ReadingEmpty nesters may face increased divorce odds
When the children move out of the family home, the parents become empty nesters. For many parents, this happens when their kids go off to college. Once the children turn 18, they enroll in college and move out, creating a dramatic change in the...
Continue ReadingHow to protect your money when divorcing
Divorce can be emotionally taxing and financially complex. Taking proactive steps to protect your assets is crucial to securing your financial future. Here are essential strategies to consider if you want to protect your money when filing for or going through a divorce. Understand...
Continue ReadingHow long will it take to resolve your divorce through mediation?
One of the most common questions among divorcing couples going through mediation is how long it will take to resolve their divorce. The answer is not straightforward, as the timeline can vary widely based on several key factors. Understanding these factors can help you...
Continue Reading5 common myths about alimony in New Jersey
Many people enter divorce proceedings with preconceived notions about alimony, perhaps influenced by rumors, media portrayals or outdated information. This can lead to unrealistic expectations and misguided beliefs about how alimony actually works. Separating fact from fiction is essential to navigating these waters more...
Continue ReadingWhat happens to a 401(k) in a New Jersey divorce?
Some assets are easy for people to address when they divorce. They may belong to one spouse, and the other may have no interest in them. Some couples have already made arrangements for certain resources by signing prenuptial or postnuptial agreements. Other assets can...
Continue Reading3 ways people can protect themselves via prenuptial agreements
Prenuptial agreements can be a very important form of protection for those beginning a marriage. By reaching certain agreements before formally entering matrimony, spouses protect themselves from scenarios in which they may have messy, expensive divorces. They can protect themselves from personal hardship when...
Continue ReadingHow can you keep divorce costs down?
Divorce is rarely an easy decision. Spouses may have been together for a number of years, and they might have children together. Divorce can also significantly change the financial standing of each spouse. Nonetheless, divorce is often for the best and there are ways...
Continue Reading3 potential advantages of divorce mediation
You do not necessarily have to litigate a divorce. You can also use mediation. You and your spouse will typically work together with the mediator, who helps guide the legal process – such as informing you about your child custody options or what state...
Continue ReadingRelocating with children: A guide
Relocating after a divorce is a significant life change that can be particularly challenging when children are involved. Balancing your own needs with the well-being of your children requires careful planning and legal guidance. Understanding the legal framework New Jersey law requires parental consent...
Continue ReadingWhat does the divorce mediation process usually involve?
Divorce mediation is an alternative dispute resolution process. Couples who attend mediation have an opportunity to pursue an uncontested divorce filing. Provided that they reach an agreement about how to handle the various issues in their divorce, they can set their own terms for...
Continue ReadingDon’t let divorce upend your college savings goals for your child
You and your soon-to-be ex may not have agreed on much lately. However, you likely agree that you want your child to have the best education you can give them. Unfortunately, college savings, in whatever form it takes, sometimes ends up being simply another...
Continue ReadingDoes financial success make divorce more or less likely?
Some people blame financial stress for ending their marriage, and they essentially think that they would’ve stayed married if they were wealthier. Maybe they lost their job and couldn’t make ends meet, so their spouse left them to seek a new relationship. This seems...
Continue ReadingEssential considerations in a high-stakes divorce
A high-stakes divorce involving significant assets, complex financial portfolios and high-value interests demands careful planning and attention to detail. The outcome can have profound ramifications on your financial future and personal well-being. Here are some key factors to keep in mind during a high-stakes...
Continue ReadingTips for divorcing a narcissist
Divorcing someone who’s been diagnosed as narcissistic, or who has narcissistic tendencies, can be an emotionally draining experience. These individuals are manipulative and self-centered. They can’t empathize with others and generally only think about what’s easiest and best for their own needs. Because of...
Continue ReadingChild custody decisions after a cohabitation relationship ends
It used to be relatively uncommon for couples to live together before marriage. Even in 2002, for example, 60% of couples polled had ever been married, while only 54% had ever cohabitated. If you continue through the decades, you’ll find a similar trend, with...
Continue ReadingCommunication is often the key to divorce mediation
There are certainly some advantages to mediating a divorce. It can be faster and cheaper. It can streamline the process. It also gives you a bit more control over your divorce because you get to make the decisions. While making these decisions, communication is...
Continue Reading3 ways a gray divorce can change someone’s retirement plans
A divorce inevitably causes significant changes to someone’s daily life and overall lifestyle. Depending on someone’s circumstances, the impact of a divorce could last far longer in some cases than others. For example, some people remain married for decades. During that time, they may...
Continue ReadingPhysical and legal custody are much different
When two people get divorced, if they have children, then they have to figure out how to split up custody after the divorce. Some couples are able to do this amicably and settle on an arrangement themselves. Others need to turn to the court,...
Continue ReadingThings to keep in mind when divorcing with children
When people get married, they intend for their unions to be lifelong. However, things do not always go as planned, and divorces occur. If there are children, matters become even more complicated. If you and your spouse are divorcing and you are parents, there...
Continue ReadingCompromise and cooperation in divorce and co-parenting
A lot of divorces get out of hand and become nasty, damaging, prolonged and expensive. This is not ideal for anyone, and, especially if you share children, it is better to do what you can to avoid this. As co-parents, you will need to...
Continue Reading5 things that can invalidate a prenuptial agreement
A prenuptial agreement can set up financial expectations for you and your future spouse. It can contain information about who will get specific assets if you go through a divorce. Some prenups also cover the assignment of debts that originated before a marriage. While...
Continue ReadingAddressing low financial worth items during divorce
Ensuring you get your fair share of marital property can take up a lot of headspace and cause a lot of stress when you are divorcing. The key to making things easier is remembering that your spouse also has rights and wishes just as...
Continue ReadingMediating property division matters can streamline a high-asset divorce
Dissolving a high-asset marriage typically involves a complicated divorce process. Trying to divide property fairly often leads to lengthy and expensive court battles. Fortunately, there is an alternative worth considering – dividing marital property through divorce mediation. The following are a few potential benefits...
Continue ReadingWhat can a mediator actually do for divorcing couples?
Preparing for a divorce can be a lengthy process. There are many issues that spouses have to address when they separate their lives and finances from one another. Those who have pre-existing marital contracts, like prenuptial agreements, may have a simple path toward divorce....
Continue ReadingThe challenges of divorce when you and your spouse own a business
On its own, divorce is a complex process. However, when a couple co-owns a business, it becomes even more complicated due to the intermingling of personal and professional assets. Dissolving your marriage presents unique challenges for business ownership and requires careful consideration. What will...
Continue ReadingHow can retirement affect alimony payments?
New Jersey law doesn’t have an option for permanent alimony orders in litigated divorce cases – at least by that name. It does offer “open durational” alimony. A payer may have to provide this support for as long as the recipient can’t support themselves...
Continue ReadingWhy set property division priorities for your high-asset divorce?
If you and your spouse are ending your marriage, and your marriage can be accurately described as a “high-asset” union, setting priorities for your property division process will not just serve as a strategic approach; it will be a truly consequential one. Property division...
Continue ReadingWhere do spouses hide assets?
Not everyone acts in good faith during a divorce. Some people do their best to hide assets from their spouse to avoid having to give them a share when the marital property gets divided. This is more likely to occur when the couple has...
Continue ReadingWhen is divorce mediation NOT recommended?
The parties in a divorce often experience disagreements that create impasses in settlement negotiations. If they cannot reach an agreement, a New Jersey family court judge could decide for them. In lieu of that, mediation provides a means to reach a compromise. However, there...
Continue Reading4 ways a divorce later in life can get more complicated
If you’re going through a gray divorce in New Jersey, you may wonder how it will affect your life. Going through a divorce later in life can affect you differently than if you’d divorced while you were younger. Unfortunately, many people aren’t prepared for...
Continue ReadingThe pitfalls and stress of high asset divorces
Divorce in New Jersey is never easy for either party. In some instances, divorce can become much more troublesome – even harmful. This is often the case for high-asset divorce. Examining some issues related to such contentious divorces can help understand why they become...
Continue ReadingNavigating through a high asset divorce
Sadly, marriages fail every day and when they do, divorce is almost inevitable. Many people involved in a divorce may worry that they will lose everything. This is especially true for those with significant assets. How those assets will be divided depends on the...
Continue ReadingWhen one divorcing spouse makes more than the other
Divorce negotiations can often become contentious, especially when the matter being discussed is alimony and one of the spouses earns significantly more than the other. There was a time when mostly the husband earned more in these situations, but much has changed in recent...
Continue ReadingPrenuptial agreements support strong marital partnerships
Having your partner raise the subject of a prenuptial agreement can raise fears about a lack of commitment. You may worry that your future spouse expects the marriage to fail and wants to deny you what family law in New Jersey would normally guarantee....
Continue ReadingWhat to do when your significant other opposes divorce mediation
When married couples in New Jersey face difficulties, divorcing is sometimes the smartest option. Before finalizing a divorce, couples must decide how they want to proceed. Mediation is a great option for divorcing couples. But problems and confusion can arise when your spouse doesn’t...
Continue ReadingHow divorce affects mortgage payments in New Jersey
Getting approved for a home loan (mortgage) in New Jersey entails a meticulous process that involves thorough scrutiny of credit scores, assets, debt-to-income ratios and more. If married, lenders will look at both spouses’ information to determine if they can meet their payment responsibilities...
Continue ReadingThree reasons to draft a prenuptial agreement
Prenuptial agreements have grown in popularity, with the number of couples choosing to draft one rising from 3% in 2010 to 15% in 2022. Although prenuptials are no longer the province of only extremely wealthy couples in New Jersey, many people shy away from...
Continue ReadingDealing with executive compensation in a divorce
New Jersey is home to many corporate executives, and inevitably some of them go through a divorce. Executives tend to be people with high incomes and varied assets, and this often makes for a more complicated divorce. One particularly tricky area is dealing with...
Continue ReadingWhy you should reconsider 50/50 child custody plans with your former partner
A divorce can bring strong emotions, as this is one of the most challenging times in life. One of the primary aspects of divorce with children is creating an agreement with your ex-spouse to share custody. Despite the latest trends of sharing custody equally,...
Continue ReadingKnow the elements to look for when choosing a divorce mediator
Choosing a mediator is one of the first steps you’ll take when going through the divorce process in New Jersey. When you pick one, they should have a few essential credentials since you’ll be dealing with critical family issues that are emotional and sensitive....
Continue ReadingHow to protect your company’s future in a divorce
Most couples getting married in New Jersey hope these unions last a lifetime, even though about 50% of marriages still end in divorce. Divorcing couples have many factors to consider, including potentially splitting businesses. However, there are a few ways to protect your company’s...
Continue ReadingChoosing the right divorce mediator
If you live in New Jersey and are going through a divorce, you and your spouse may want to consider mediation. This can be a more cooperative approach, but it is important that you choose the right person as mediator. Qualifications First, it is...
Continue ReadingAdapting to your new life after divorce with dignity
Even with a perfect exit strategy and preparation, divorce in New Jersey is still one of the toughest experiences one can go through. It can be a tumultuous time with moments of sadness, guilt, confusion and even anger. In the midst of all that,...
Continue ReadingSay no to posting about your divorce on social media
In New Jersey, navigating divorce can become emotionally challenging, and social media can worsen a problematic situation. During this time, proceed with caution when it comes to social media. The following guidelines help clarify the best ways to engage with social media during your...
Continue ReadingWhat to remember when divorcing with an art collection
Some people living in New Jersey like collecting all sorts of items. Certain individuals enjoy starting and adding to valuable art collections. If you own art and are going through a divorce, worrying about the future of your priceless pieces is understandable. Create a...
Continue ReadingMistakes to avoid in New Jersey divorces
New Jersey residents going through divorce have a lot on their plate. In addition to the emotional turmoil that divorce brings, there are logistical nightmares – new housing, new budgets, co-parenting, and so much more. It’s normal to make mistakes with so much to...
Continue ReadingWhen can divorce benefit your kids?
The end of your marriage in New Jersey is bound to affect your kids. Determining whether this is negative or positive is up to you. Contrary to popular belief, ending your marriage doesn’t have to be a bad thing. It can be the catalyst...
Continue ReadingTips for selling a home during a divorce
During a divorce proceeding in New Jersey, several topics require discussion, including what to do with the family home. For many divorcing couples, their home represents their most significant asset and holds sentimental value for all parties involved. Several options are available for individuals...
Continue ReadingAlimony and child support during a separation
The financial impact of separation can be significant for individuals in New Jersey. One of the biggest challenges a married couple with children faces is how to financially support their children after separation. Contrary to popular belief, child support is not only determined when...
Continue ReadingLearn the differences between a marriage dissolution and divorce
Have you and your spouse decided to end your marriage in New Jersey? Going through this process can be challenging emotionally, and there are several elements you must consider. The first is if you will choose divorce or dissolution. Weighing the pros and cons...
Continue ReadingMediation during a high-conflict divorce in New Jersey
It’s not uncommon for New Jersey divorces to be stressful. High emotions and tense discussions can often lead to a high-conflict divorce where it becomes difficult to engage with your partner. There are ways to navigate high-conflict divorces. A common tool is divorce mediation,...
Continue ReadingProblems to expect when divorcing a narcissist
Divorcing a narcissist in New Jersey is complex and challenging as up to 90% of divorce cases center around high-conflict issues. Narcissists often do everything they can to prolong the marriage while blaming their partner for problems. Prepare for the same behaviors Not every...
Continue ReadingAvoiding taxes on divorce settlements in New Jersey
Divorce settlements in New Jersey usually involve some form of alimony payments from one spouse to the other. These divorce settlements might also involve the transfer of property from one person to the other, or large settlements. The IRS has certain requirements when dealing...
Continue ReadingPredicting future divorce
Every year, thousands of married couples in New Jersey experience marital turmoil, often culminating in a divorce. In some cases, the seeds of that disunion can develop slowly and in a way that one or both partners can see in advance. In others, the...
Continue ReadingFinancial infidelity in late-life divorces
Late-life divorces, also known as gray divorces, have become increasingly common for New Jersey couples. One of the reasons that gray divorces have become more prevalent is financial infidelity, a breach of trust in a relationship that occurs when one partner hides financial information...
Continue Reading4 common financial issues common in divorces
When New Jersey couples dissolve their marriage, they expose themselves to several issues. Both parties face emotional and mental stressors during and after the divorce. However, there are several financial issues commonly experienced by divorcees. Splitting existing assets Currently, only nine states in the...
Continue ReadingWhat are some factors to determine alimony in New Jersey?
Divorced spouses in New Jersey and around the country receive alimony, which is also called spousal support, to help them to maintain the same kind of lifestyle that they enjoyed when they were married. Alimony is not awarded in all divorce cases, and it...
Continue ReadingIs a prenuptial agreement right for you?
When couples in New Jersey and around the country walk down the aisle, they want to believe that their marriages will stand the test of time. They are often mistaken. The divorce rate in the United States has remained pretty much unchanged for decades,...
Continue ReadingWhen is mediation not an appropriate method of conflict resolution?
There will be difficulties when it comes to divorce, no matter what the circumstances are. How complex the process is will vary from couple to couple, depending on many factors. Mediation, an alternative to the traditional litigation process and a form of alternative dispute...
Continue ReadingProperty division in New Jersey
New Jersey is among the 41 states that have equitable distribution rules. Therefore, a judge may divide property fairly when a person gets divorced, but each spouse may not get 50% of the assets. The judge will generally consider many factors about each person’s...
Continue ReadingTypes of legal pathways for New Jersey divorces
Divorce isn’t uncommon for New Jersey residents, but that doesn’t make it any easier. During this time of emotional highs and lows, individuals often make decisions based on what friends and family did in similar situations. Or, in some cases, overly dramatic depictions in...
Continue ReadingDivorce mediation and arbitration in New Jersey
When divorcing couples in New Jersey and around the country discuss thorny matters like spousal support and property division, they are not always able to reach an agreement at the negotiating table. Taking divorce cases to court is always an option when an amicable...
Continue ReadingHow do you know if you qualify for alimony?
Some New Jersey couples find that their marriage cannot last. After the divorce is final, one spouse may be ordered to pay alimony to the other. This is how to know if you qualify for this type of support. Understanding alimony Alimony is payment...
Continue ReadingHow to handle divorce when you have a medical practice
As a medical practice owner in New Jersey, you have a lot on your plate. But what happens if you get divorced? How do you handle it and what implications does it have for your business? In this blog post, you’ll find some tips...
Continue ReadingDetermining whether a prenuptial agreement is right for you
A prenuptial agreement, or “prenup” for short, is a legal contract between two individuals who are planning to get married. The purpose of a prenup is to determine how assets will be divided in the event of a divorce or separation. While prenups are...
Continue ReadingWhat should you expect during divorce mediation?
Estranged New Jersey couples who want to avoid the uncomfortable experience of a traditional court divorce have alternatives. One option is divorce mediation, which allows them to work together and negotiate a settlement. These are the steps involved in the process. Meeting with a...
Continue ReadingFinancial considerations for high-asset divorce
One of the significant concerns of couples beginning the divorce process in New Jersey is finances. For wealthy individuals going through a high-asset divorce, these considerations are often more complex, needing additional preparation and time for negotiations. Understanding their own financial state Before the...
Continue ReadingThe top 3 ways to manage emotions of divorce in New Jersey
The end of a relationship is a time of great upheaval and change. It can be extremely stressful while it’s happening and barely gets easier after it’s over. However, this is the time you’ll need to make some of the most important decisions of...
Continue ReadingExplaining palimony
The end of a relationship can be challenging, whether it be a marriage or a long-term relationship. New Jersey residents can often find themselves unsure of their legal rights when dissolving a partnership. Most people are familiar with the concept of alimony – financial...
Continue ReadingNegotiating a divorce settlement in New Jersey
New Jersey has an equitable distribution law that requires marital assets to be divided fairly but not necessarily equally in a divorce. Spouses who would prefer to avoid public and costly court battles can establish for themselves how their property should be divided by...
Continue ReadingImportant steps to protect your finances during divorce
Going through a divorce in New Jersey is stressful, but you need to be proactive to protect yourself. One of your biggest priorities involves your finances. Take these steps to protect your money during a divorce. Do an inventory of your assets You will...
Continue ReadingHow to prepare for a divorce in New Jersey
Divorce is a stressful, emotionally draining process. Many people are often unprepared for this legal process in New Jersey, which can consequently have a profound effect on every aspect of their lives. Understand how the process works In New Jersey, there are two types...
Continue ReadingWorking with a divorce mediator
High-conflict divorces are expensive and can take a significant toll on someone’s health, career and relationships. If you have decided to divorce and want to avoid a lengthy, contentious process, it may be wise to work with a New Jersey divorce mediator. What is...
Continue ReadingWhen your spouse doesn’t want to get divorced
Divorce is a difficult decision. If your spouse has yet to reach the mindset you are in, they may have reservations about getting a divorce. By revealing the reality of your desire to divorce, your spouse will better understand why it may be the...
Continue ReadingWhen does dissipation occur in a marriage?
If you are contemplating getting a divorce in New Jersey, you might want to consider whether your spouse is guilty of dissipation. You may have a legal right to claim that your spouse irresponsibly spent money when they first learned of your intention to...
Continue ReadingWorried about divorce? How to protect your assets in New Jersey
If you are getting divorced and have significant assets in New Jersey, it is vital to take steps to protect them. Divorces can be very contentious, and it is not uncommon for one spouse to try to take advantage of the other. Make a...
Continue ReadingA less contentious approach to divorce
There are different paths to divorce that you and your spouse can choose to take. While one way is to battle it out in a New Jersey courtroom, you can take a less contentious approach through mediation. Mediation, which can be used for the...
Continue ReadingThe complexities of a high-asset divorce
Divorces are rarely pleasant financial experiences, but if you as a New Jersey couple have a lot of assets, you face even greater potential ramifications. If you are considering ending your marriage and this applies to you, keep these facts in mind. Which assets...
Continue ReadingJewelry and divorce proceedings
Property division could become a contentious issue during a New Jersey divorce. Things do not have to be difficult when both parties are willing to compromise. Sometimes, the compromise center is on how to divide expensive jewelry collections. Jewelry and property division Jewelry may...
Continue ReadingHow to be successful during divorce mediation
New Jersey couples who decide that divorce is their only option may want to use mediation. You can succeed during this process by using these good tips. Be flexible and willing to negotiate Divorce mediation is only the right option for you when you...
Continue ReadingHow businesses are impacted by divorces
A divorce can be a complicated affair regardless of your net worth or whether it is settled inside or outside of a New Jersey courtroom. However, if you own a business, ending your marriage may result in chaos for workers, investors and others who...
Continue ReadingWhy you should stay off social media during divorce
With one study showing that 1 in 5 divorces listed Facebook as a factor in the split, residents of New Jersey who have decided to end their marriage should be wary of how they use social media during the process. They might even consider...
Continue ReadingHaving a better divorce
As much as both spouses wish their union lasts, some New Jersey marriages head for divorce. Couples could grow apart or find themselves disagreeing over financial and other matters. Sadly, a marriage may involve abuse or infidelity, making remaining in the marriage untenable for...
Continue ReadingHow to do well during your divorce
Although no divorce is easy, there are steps that you may be able to take to end your marriage the right way. For example, you can help yourself, your spouse and your children by showing copious amounts of empathy throughout the process. Showing empathy...
Continue ReadingHow does date of birth impact Social Security spousal benefits?
Social Security benefits can be an important part of your retirement plans. You might be able to claim benefits based on your own work record or based on your ex-spouse’s work record. Some New Jersey residents, however, might be surprised to find that the...
Continue ReadingThe divorce process in New Jersey
New Jersey divorce laws give separating partners a chance to fight for their rights and the property they deserve. And although every marriage is unique, and there are several different ways to get divorced, the general process is as follows: Filing a divorce petition...
Continue ReadingHow to manage your social media usage during your divorce
The best approach to social media for New Jersey couples who are going through a divorce is to avoid it altogether. However, this is impractical for many people. In that event, there are certain guidelines that you should follow. Privacy First, lock down your...
Continue ReadingHow alimony differs from child support in New Jersey
When it comes to New Jersey family law, there are a lot of important concepts that people need to understand. Two of the most common are alimony and child support. Both are support payments typically paid by the same person, but each has its...
Continue ReadingTips for telling your children you’re getting a divorce
A New Jersey divorce is stressful enough, but if you have children, it can present even more challenges. You can use these tips to let your kids know that your family dynamic will be changing. Do it with your spouse You and your spouse...
Continue ReadingShould you get a prenuptial agreement?
Before getting married in New Jersey, many couples create a prenuptial agreement. This type of agreement can be helpful in many situations, but it’s not always necessary. If you are wondering if a prenuptial agreement is right for you, here’s what you need to...
Continue ReadingWhat are some of the most common predictors of divorce?
Although married New Jersey couples vow to stay together “til death do us part,” many end up in divorce. Certain things serve as predictors of divorce. These are a few of the most common. Getting married too young or over age 32 A study...
Continue ReadingDo you need to modify your child support order?
Even if you’ve already solidified your child support order in court, you can return to court to request a modification if your circumstances change. If you’re a New Jersey resident, here are some tips for making permanent or short-term changes to your child support...
Continue ReadingUnderstanding alimony laws in New Jersey
The aftermath of a divorce in New Jersey can sometimes be cause for anxiety. This is a period during which your financial future can seem up for grabs. You should be aware that there are laws that govern the division of assets after a...
Continue ReadingProtecting your business’ confidentiality in your divorce
Getting divorced in New Jersey means exchanging financial information with your spouse. But if you own your own business, a lot of that data will be confidential — not something that you want to be disclosed in an open court proceeding. In fact, you...
Continue ReadingWhat is a certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA)?
A certified divorce financial analyst or CDFA helps divorcing couples and their lawyers come to a fair divorce settlement. The CDFA has extensive knowledge of tax laws and asset distribution and can assist with financial planning during and after divorce. If you’re a New...
Continue ReadingGetting through the emotions involved in high-asset divorce
Couples considering divorce in New Jersey go through a range of emotions, but those experiencing high-asset divorce have more on their plates as the financial stakes are higher. Reaching an agreement can take time, further adding to emotional turmoil. Knowing what to expect can...
Continue ReadingNegotiating an alimony agreement
Alimony is one of the most challenging processes associated with divorce. When two people decide to end their marriage, the last thing on their minds is figuring out how to give money to one another once they are no longer together. If you’re a...
Continue ReadingHow is divorce different later in life?
A divorce later in life may avert complications such as child custody battles. However, other challenges arise with the split of a couple over the age of 50. What must spouses consider when maneuvering through a “gray divorce?” Greater difficulty in disentangling lives As...
Continue ReadingCredit card reward points in a divorce
With a digital economy that’s continuously on the rise, it has led to entirely new forms of assets – and new types of problems with dividing them when it comes to splitting up a New Jersey marriage. Credit card reward points are a prime...
Continue ReadingWhy life insurance can be necessary in New Jersey divorce
Are you contemplating or going through a divorce in New Jersey? Consider your rights regarding the life insurance policy you or your partner has. Here’s why it’s important. Life insurance and divorce in New Jersey There are two vital details about life insurance that...
Continue ReadingImportant items in a divorce mediation checklist
Divorce in New Jersey can be costly, even for simple splits where there are no children and little property is involved. As couples accumulate wealth and have children, the bill increases, so how do you minimize the cost of ending a marriage? The answer...
Continue ReadingDivorcing a millionaire requires close scrutiny of each asset
If you’ve decided to split from your marriage partner and get a divorce in New Jersey, you’ll need to follow a specific legal process. However, when you’re divorcing a millionaire, it’s also essential to understand the financial ramifications involved with your decision. Understanding your...
Continue ReadingTaxes and alimony
If you are set to receive or pay spousal support in New Jersey, it will be helpful to understand the types of spousal support and their tax implications. Being knowledgeable about this will help you plan for the future and ensure that your financial...
Continue ReadingDo stepparents have custody rights after divorce?
A divorce with biological children presents custody issues between biological parents. In a subsequent divorce involving stepchildren, custody may prove trickier. Stepparents may provide care to children for years, but does that give them rights to continue having a relationship with the children after...
Continue ReadingWhy illness can sometimes lead to divorce
Some New Jersey couples might find themselves considering divorce when one of them is suffering a serious illness. They might wonder if the illness itself leads to the end of the marriage. However, while the complications brought about by illness can be a factor...
Continue ReadingSpouses may attempt to hide assets during a divorce
When a divorce settlement could cost one spouse an enormous sum of money, attempts to hide assets may occur. Such illegal activities might extend even to modest settlements. New Jersey spouses who attempt to hide assets might find themselves in significant legal trouble. Still,...
Continue ReadingAvoiding bias is necessary for successful mediation
One of the tools that New Jersey residents might use to settle the issues resulting from their divorce is mediation. However, for mediation to be successful, the mediator must be truly neutral, which is challenging when many of people’s biases are implicit and automatic....
Continue ReadingWhat is equitable distribution in New Jersey?
New Jersey is a state that uses equitable distribution to divide property when a couple divorces. Equitable distribution isn’t a 50–50 split of marital property like some may think. It’s a fair division of marital property in a divorce, which may or may not...
Continue ReadingHow to keep real property in a divorce
If you choose to end your marriage, there is a chance that you will cede control of your New Jersey home to your spouse. There is also a chance that you will cede other properties that you own at the time of the divorce....
Continue ReadingHow to retain college savings during a divorce
There are always many things to consider during a divorce. Property division in a New Jersey divorce could potentially impact your child’s college savings, which might be disastrous. However, you can take steps to protect your child’s future education. Keep an open line of...
Continue ReadingWhat happens to a jointly-owned business in a divorce
After years of hard work, you may worry about what will happen to your business when you get divorced. If you and your spouse both own your company, here is what you need to know about how your divorce will impact this important asset....
Continue ReadingHigh-asset divorce involving a medical practice
Divorcing when there is a large amount of wealth and assets involved can get complicated. For New Jersey couples who own medical practices, understanding how the assets and ownership of the practice are divided in divorce is a critically important matter because the future...
Continue ReadingWhat is the alternative to traditional alimony?
Many divorcing couples in New Jersey have to deal with matters like alimony. If there’s an agreement between the spouses, it’s possible to skip the traditional alimony route and go with an alternative instead. This might be a good solution if standard monthly alimony...
Continue ReadingWill your business be considered shared property during your divorce?
If you’re getting a divorce in New Jersey and own a business, it’s important to know that your company could be considered a shared asset. When your marital assets are divided, there are several ways in which your business might be affected. Knowing what...
Continue ReadingWhy divorce mediation may be a beneficial option
Divorce can be a significant hardship for a family, creating uncertainty, fear and strong emotions. Resolving the end of a marriage may test your fortitude and patience. Divorce mediation may be an attractive alternative to enable you to successfully negotiate the challenges of your...
Continue ReadingDo you need a prenuptial agreement in New Jersey?
Prenuptial agreements can be a very divisive subject among New Jersey couples. According to a new survey by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers on prenup agreements, the divide may be generational. The study shows that millennials were one of the main reasons that...
Continue Reading4 myths about divorce mediation in New Jersey
There are many myths about divorce mediation that you may have heard. Divorce is a difficult process, and it is important to understand what you can expect from the legal system. Misconceptions about divorce mediation are often inaccurate and can lead to confusion with...
Continue ReadingHow divorce affects college financial aid
After a divorce, there are several things you and your former spouse will have to divide as fairly as possible. One of these things may be your child’s college education expenses. If your child is currently enrolled in college or will be entering college...
Continue ReadingAlimony and cohabitation in New Jersey
For a long time, the law in New Jersey was that alimony needed to be paid until an ex-spouse was remarried. When this law was first enacted, it made sense. But over the past few decades, attitudes about marriage have changed. Whereas there used...
Continue ReadingWhat factors are considered when making an alimony decision?
Alimony is an important part of many divorces as it determines how much money one spouse will be paying the other for a set period of time. Under New Jersey law, a variety of factors are considered that determine how much alimony will be...
Continue ReadingValuing a professional practice during a divorce
Professionals in New Jersey should understand that their practice may be viewed as a marital asset during any divorce proceeding. That means that, like the house, retirement accounts and checking account, it will potentially be divided with a portion of the value given to...
Continue ReadingHow social media can be used in a divorce
Social media has changed the legal landscape in a variety of ways. One example is that social media comments and uploads are often used as part of divorce proceedings. According to one study, 50% of participants found that social media negatively impacted their relationships....
Continue ReadingWhat are the benefits of mediation?
When faced with ending their marriage, many couples assume that the next step is the traditional divorce in court. However, mediation is an alternative to litigation that continues to rise in popularity. What are the benefits of this divorce option? Confidentiality and control Whereas...
Continue ReadingModifying child custody orders
Divorced parents should have the best interests of their children in mind. This may be even more true in deciding child custody and making modifications to the child custody order Parents may not find it easy to make decisions about when and where their...
Continue ReadingMediation helps couples navigate the divorce and life afterward
Many divorcing couples choose mediation over litigation for a variety of reasons. The popularity of this option extends beyond the divorce itself since it also establishes a framework for future family relationships. About mediation Divorce mediation is a process that takes place outside of...
Continue Reading3 reasons why divorce mediation is in your child’s best interests
As parents about to divorce, you will have to settle several matters to resolve related to your child. If you need a judge to make those decisions for you, they will look at what is in your child’s best interests. Yet, it is not...
Continue ReadingGrandparent’s Rights and Divorce in Marlton, New Jersey
As a grandparent, watching your child divorce from their spouse is not only stressful, but in many cases, it is extremely heart-wrenching and emotionally draining. When you have grandchildren, the last issue you need to encounter yourself is the inability to see them after...
Continue ReadingIs your spouse hiding assets?
When working through divorce, you would hope that your spouse would at least not work against you. But unfortunately, that is not always the case. Sometimes, a spouse might try to use the confusion and turmoil of divorce to make some personal gains. This...
Continue ReadingAre these signs of hidden assets?
When going through divorce, you have to keep your eye on several different matters all at once. This can create an enormous emotional and mental burden for you. Unfortunately, some spouses may attempt to take advantage of this by hiding assets. But what is...
Continue ReadingHow insurance works in divorce
Health insurance after a divorce is a complicated issue in some respects for New Jersey families. The federal law is clear. After a divorce, an ex-spouse cannot be carried on employer-provided health insurance. Outside that, there are numerous ways that you can address the...
Continue ReadingHow to handle pensions in divorce proceedings
Divorce can be challenging from an emotional standpoint, and it can also significantly interfere with your finances. It’s important to make informed choices when you’re dividing assets and property with your former spouse, especially if you’re involved in a high-asset divorce. If you’re a...
Continue ReadingHow can I maintain financial health during divorce?
Unavoidable changes to your finances occur during divorce. However, the decisions you make can have a significant impact on your financial health in the future. As explained by U.S. News & World Report, divorce impacts everything from taxes to household income. Here are a...
Continue ReadingThe factors that determine if you’ll get spousal support
In the state of New Jersey, alimony may be included in a final divorce settlement. There are many factors that a judge will evaluate when determining if either party to a marriage should receive spousal support payments. These factors may include your age, your...
Continue ReadingFactors that determine alimony amounts and duration
When a marriage ends in New Jersey, the courts and the interested parties often must grapple with a list of financial concerns. Some of these concerns rest on the ability of the parties to pay for costs associated with legal action. Another central issue,...
Continue ReadingHow is divorce different later in life?
Although the divorce rate overall in the United States has declined in recent decades, the divorce rate for couples 50 and older continues to rise. To begin with, people are living longer and those who opt for later-in-life divorce are ready to start a...
Continue ReadingHow may New Jersey divide executive compensation in a divorce?
A divorce involving a highly compensated executive may entail dividing valuable stocks and other employer benefits provided as bonuses or incentives. Under New Jersey’s equitable distribution laws, you may have a right to receive a fair share of his or her compensation package as...
Continue ReadingWhat unique hurdles do grey divorcees face?
Grey divorce refers to anyone who gets divorced in their 50s or later, compared to younger divorcing couples. But age is not the only factor that plays a role in differentiating grey divorce. In fact, grey divorcees often face more hurdles than younger couples....
Continue ReadingKnow how to handle investment accounts in a divorce
Divorce can sometimes be more difficult when a couple has access to numerous kinds of assets. When people have investment accounts, they need to divide these between them. According to Fidelity, people can divide investment accounts in several different ways. People may divide the...
Continue ReadingIs nesting a good choice for our family?
Divorce is a complicated and often emotional process. However, the process of building your life back after a divorce can be just as complicated. Particularly if your divorce involves minor children, figuring out a new rhythm to family life requires a lot of trial...
Continue ReadingFiling a motion to increase child support after job loss
If your work situation has changed for the worse and you now make less money, you may be wondering if you can receive more child support. After all, you do not want your child to suffer from your income loss. The combined amount you...
Continue ReadingWhat is the purpose of alimony?
Alimony may seem like an outdated concept. When it originated, it was during a time when women stayed home to tend the children and the house, and men were the only ones working and supporting the household. At that time, the goal was to...
Continue ReadingHow should divorced parents navigate financial aid?
Newly divorced parents have several shifts to adjust to. For instance, how should they handle helping their shared college-bound child apply for financial aid? Finaid provides insights into the intersection between financial aid and former spouses. Learn how to help your child and yourself...
Continue ReadingWhat should you do with your marital home?
Deciding to divorce your current spouse means deciding what to do about your marital home. Which options do you have, and which makes sense for you? U.S. News & World Report may help you decide how to handle property division in a divorce. Explore...
Continue ReadingIdentify and categorize your assets ahead of property division
If you and your spouse have decided to end your marriage, you may feel apprehensive about the property division phase of the divorce. The effort to assemble your financial information takes time, but it will help you identify and categorize your assets for a...
Continue ReadingWhat do you know about selling a home during a divorce?
As part of your divorce, you and your current spouse want to sell your marital home. Neither of you knows how to navigate the process, and you want to do things the right way. American Home Agents offers tips for putting a marital home...
Continue ReadingDoes divorce affect higher income families in a different way?
Divorce has many consequences. For many families, the biggest impact is the emotional toll it can take due to the changes within the family structure. According to Time, studies show that the impact of divorce can be worse for higher-income families, which is shocking...
Continue ReadingHow do courts address alimony for special needs children?
Your experience as a parent may involve caring for a child with special needs. This makes the subject of alimony a more critical one for you since your child requires special and more expensive care. You should know whether a court will give special...
Continue ReadingPreserving retirement benefits during a divorce
People work hard to accumulate retirement benefits to sustain their desired lifestyle in the future. Divorce can threaten to upend retirement planning and obliterate its value. Preserving retirement savings is critical to people’s ability to reestablish their independence and prepare for the future. When...
Continue Reading3 ways a postnuptial agreement may save your marriage
Even though you still love your husband or wife, your marriage may seem to have more rocky patches than smooth ones. Before deciding to walk into divorce court, you may want to try to save your marriage. Drafting a postnuptial agreement may help you...
Continue ReadingIs mediation as good as litigation?
You have many options for handling your divorce. Two of the most common ones are mediation and litigation. Litigation is when you go to court and let the judge decide the details of your divorce agreement after hearing your arguments. Mediation, on the other...
Continue ReadingPerjury in divorce court
Sometimes, one spouse becomes so desperate or vindictive that he or she provides false information to the court. Doing so constitutes a felony in virtually all U.S. courts, including New Jersey. People found guilty of committing this crime could pay fines and earn criminal...
Continue ReadingHow does the court calculate alimony?
You can find a New Jersey alimony calculator relatively easily online. How accurate are these tools? Unfortunately, the answer is that they may not apply to your unique situation. Alimony is more than just a three-point, simple calculation. Like many other aspects of your...
Continue ReadingIs your divorcing partner trying to cheat you out of assets?
When going through a divorce, you hope your spouse is as honest and forthcoming as possible. Unfortunately, that is not always the case. In fact, many couples find that at least one spouse has attempted to hide assets. To make sure you get your...
Continue ReadingMicro factors that may affect the value of your family business
If you own a New Jersey business, the recent economic turmoil may affect its value and become a point of contention if you are going through a divorce. The financial impact and fluctuation in asset values could require a valuation for equitable distribution purposes....
Continue ReadingIs parental alienation obvious?
As a parent going through divorce, you prioritize your child even in the most difficult of times. Unfortunately, your co-parent may not do the same. In fact, some co-parents may try to weaponize your child against you. They may even try to actively sabotage...
Continue ReadingHow can I save money on divorce?
Many people underestimate the expenses involved with divorce. Of course, most people have heard of child support and potential alimony expenses, but these are not the only costs associated with the process. In fact, these costs do not appear until after you finalize the...
Continue ReadingHow does New Jersey define cohabitation?
When you pay someone alimony in New Jersey, you may question whether you must continue to do so if your ex has moved on and now shares a life with someone else. Until 2014, you would have had to prove that your former spouse...
Continue ReadingWhat should I do to prepare for mediation?
Divorce mediation requires a lot of hard work on your part. It is a process that puts everything under the control of you and your spouse. If you fail to work together and put effort into the process, it will not work. With that...
Continue ReadingWhat happens to the mortgage when you divorce?
When your New Jersey marriage comes to an end, you need to figure out what to do with your shared assets and debts so that you may move forward with life on your own. If you and your one-time partner share a home and...
Continue ReadingWhen may the court require you to pay manimony?
Originally called alimony, courts have awarded spousal support payments as part of divorce proceedings for decades. In recent years, however, a new wrinkle to the traditional payments by husbands to wives has begun to emerge: manimony. If you have never heard this word before,...
Continue ReadingHow Your Contributions to the Marriage Affect Alimony
The judge in your divorce case will consider a variety of factors when determining whether to allocate alimony. One of those is your contributions to the marriage. At Weinberg, Kaplan & Smith, P.A., we want to help you to understand this factor better so...
Continue ReadingWhat does the Termination of Child Support Law mean for you?
The Termination of Child Support Act became New Jersey law as of Feb. 1, 2017. Under this law, a parent’s child and medical support obligations end when the child becomes 19 years old. As explained by the New Jersey Department of Child Support, however,...
Continue ReadingDo grandparents have visitation rights after divorce?
When your child is divorcing, you want to do whatever you can to help him or her through this difficult time. You may also have many questions, including questions about your grandchildren. Will they be all right? Where will they live? Most importantly, will...
Continue ReadingWhy divorce filings increase after the holidays
The anticipation let alone the reality of the holidays often contribute to a great deal of stress for people. For marriages already under strain, a holiday season may put an end to any hopes of moving forward together. Many spouses make the choice to...
Continue ReadingMoney, lies and marital infidelities
When a spouse wants to surprise a partner with a special gift, he or she might try to hide the purchase until after giving the gift. Most people would agree this falls into an acceptable realm of hiding purchases. However, other situations involving hidden...
Continue ReadingHow can your records help you keep your business?
You have worked hard to build up a profitable business, so if you are preparing for a divorce, you may worry that a court will award your spouse a portion of your business value. This ruling may cause you to sell off the business...
Continue Reading3 ways a prenup may strengthen your marriage
A prenuptial agreement, or prenup, is a private agreement between you and your partner that sets forth a fair plan for property division, alimony payments, debt obligations and other estate planning concerns should you end up separating. If you are preparing for your wedding...
Continue ReadingHow can you approach the idea of obtaining a prenup?
If a divorce dissolves, you could potentially lose all of your assets. A prenuptial agreement serves as a protective document. If you accumulate separate property, you can keep it even after a divorce. The way to make sure that your prenup is valid, you...
Continue ReadingHow to handle a high asset divorce
Couples at all income levels divorce, but the process is often more complex among high-asset couples. With higher incomes and more assets involved, divorce can be challenging and contentious. To make sure the process goes as smoothly as possible, and that there is a...
Continue ReadingWhy is a divorce mediator a better option for my family?
Mediation does not work for every family. It generally requires both parties to agree to mediation and your spouse may choose to fight. If your spouse does remain committed to an amicable divorce and feels open to compromise, however, this may provide a good...
Continue ReadingPurchasing life insurance while paying spousal support
If the court determines that you should pay alimony or you volunteer to do so, you may need to purchase a life insurance policy. You may then need to name your ex as a beneficiary. If you already have life insurance in place with...
Continue ReadingWill I have to pay alimony for life?
The rules about assigning alimony leave a lot up to judges. They can often make decisions about how long you have to pay and how much based on what they learn about your marriage and financial situations. In the past, some judges would order...
Continue ReadingWhat will ending our marriage do to our business?
Property division is often one of the most contentious aspects of divorce, especially for business owners. If you and your spouse co-own a business, ending your marriage can be extremely complicated. Joint ownership does not necessarily mean equal ownership, and you may not have...
Continue ReadingWhat should you know about the financial side of divorce negotiations?
One of the most challenging aspects of a divorce is dividing your assets and managing your finances so that after the divorce, you can continue to live a stable life. While you probably know it is essential to understand the complete financial picture when...
Continue ReadingHow can you overcome a grudge to healthier divorce?
During a divorce, it is easy to focus on the sadness and anger. It is normal to feel bitter, but the hostility and resentment may consume all your positive feelings. Mayo Clinic warns that you can harm your present relationships and compromise your connections...
Continue ReadingWhen should I take a divorce to trial?
In the vast majority of divorces, it is more advantageous to try and negotiate divorce terms and settle as compared to taking the divorce to court. Taking a divorce to court can be extremely expensive both in time and money, and often is very...
Continue ReadingWhat are ways to negotiate property division?
You may have some personal possessions that you do not want to part with, and yet your upcoming divorce makes it possible or even likely that you will have to sell them off to split the value between yourself and your spouse. Still, it...
Continue Reading4 steps for obtaining a QDRO in New Jersey
If you or your soon-to-be ex-spouse has retirement accounts, you likely need to divide them as part of your divorce. For plans that fall under the Employee Retirement Income Security Act, obtaining a qualified domestic relations order is essential. A QDRO is a court...
Continue ReadingWill claims of child abuse affect your divorce settlement?
If you are going through a divorce in New Jersey, you may have concerns that your spouse will claim that you participated in a form of child abuse. He or she may make such claims with the intent of getting a settlement in his...
Continue ReadingDo you know how college financial aid works for divorced parents?
Sometimes, college applicants feel that they must clear several obstacles to secure financial aid. Applicants with divorced parents have additional hurdles to conquer. Divorced parents should see what U.S. News & World Report says about navigating the financial aid process. Misinformation could result in...
Continue ReadingHow could mediation improve your financial future?
Mediation offers a number of possible benefits to couples seeking a way to complete a divorce without the acrimony and stress of a court setting. One of the most attractive qualities of mediation is that couples may end their marriage with more money in...
Continue ReadingDoes cohabitation end the need for alimony?
When you are the primary income earner in your marital home in Marlton, you understand the impact that your divorce may have on your ex-spouse’s financial stability. This understanding may make it easier for you to accept the need to provide them with financial...
Continue ReadingWhat New Jersey considers when awarding alimony
Unless you were the main breadwinner in your relationship, you may have cause to seek alimony when your New Jersey marriage comes to an end. You may feel particularly inclined to do so if you sacrificed your own career or education for the sake...
Continue ReadingHow do you handle a narcissistic ex-spouse?
Some individuals meet divorce with a fair amount of spite and anger, but what happens when your ex-spouse exhibits narcissistic behavior? The Mayo Clinic notes that those with the symptoms of this disorder have feelings of superiority, are easily insulted and often expect special...
Continue ReadingWhy do you need a prenup?
New Jersey couples like you aspire for long, healthy relationships. But many of us understand that this does not always happen. If you get a divorce, the ramifications can last throughout the following years. A prenuptial agreement, or prenup, helps mitigate that damage. But...
Continue ReadingWant a quicker divorce? A no-fault divorce may not be the answer
Divorce laws vary from state to state and while all states now have a process for no-fault divorces, it may take substantially longer if you decide to go that route. Keep reading for more information on no-fault divorces, as well as grounds for divorce...
Continue ReadingWhen can a man get alimony?
The courts do not consider gender when determining who gets spousal support. The determination of the court comes from need and the finances of both spouses. According to Forbes, though, more often it is women who receive spousal support awards. In some cases, this...
Continue ReadingCan I save money on my divorce?
One of the more overlooked aspects of divorce is the cost. Of course, many people worry about child support payments and potential alimony payments, but divorce itself can be quite expensive on its own. In certain circumstances, the cost of the divorce itself may...
Continue ReadingHow can I cope with a new divorce?
The effects of divorce touch upon every aspect of a person’s life. If you are recently divorced, you may find yourself wondering about the future. You may also have financial concerns or concerns about how it will impact your children. Divorce also has a...
Continue ReadingPost-divorce debt responsibilities and realities
Many people struggling in their marriage may fear getting divorced in part due to the financial losses they may experience after splitting their assets with their spouse. Once the decision to divorce has been made, however, spouses realize that they must not only split...
Continue ReadingYour child wants to live with the other parent. Now what?
You and your ex finally worked out the details of your divorce, and you have primary custody of your shared children. Recently, your son shared that he wants to live with the other parent. What is the fairest way to respond to this news?...
Continue ReadingWhat do you know about choosing a legal guardian for your child?
While tending to estate planning, you learn the importance of choosing a legal guardian for your children in case something happens to you and the child’s other parent. You do not want to think about not being present to raise your child, but it...
Continue Reading3 social media mistakes to avoid amid divorce
Going through a divorce may make you feel lonely, anxious or depressed, and you may turn to social media to vent or feel connected with other people. If you are not careful when interacting online, though, you run the risk of the things you...
Continue ReadingWhen custody mediation doesn’t work and you are headed to court
Like most other New Jersey parents going through a divorce, you may have attempted to mediate your child custody issues, but it didn’t go as planned. For some reason, you just couldn’t reach an agreement on all or a few issues. Now, you face...
Continue ReadingLife insurance in divorce can be confusing at times
There are many things on the table when a couple’s marriage is no longer working and they decide that it’s coming to an end. Divorce brings with it many decisions New Jersey couples have to make about their separation and forging ahead as singles....
Continue ReadingNew Jersey couples setting popular divorce trends
It seems some couples who are ending their marriages are setting some trends. New Jersey couples who are heading for divorce apparently have some things in common and are setting some new indicators moving ahead as single individuals. Here are some of those trends...
Continue ReadingQuestions millennials should ask before deciding to divorce
Marriage breakdowns can happen at any age. New Jersey couples who are in their 20s and find themselves discussing divorce should ask themselves a few pertinent questions before making the ultimate decision. By visiting these issues, it may help the divorce process to go...
Continue ReadingWho’s responsible for credit card debt in a divorce?
Reviewing a list of assets and debts is something a divorcing couple must do. Having to discuss debts may be particularly difficult when a New Jersey couple is going through a divorce since very often, the financial picture is something that contributed to the...
Continue ReadingA passive-aggressive spouse may try to derail your divorce
You have heard of contentious divorces that involve drama, shouting and lengthy battles in court. Your divorce does not have to end up like this, but you can face other unique challenges when dealing with a passive-aggressive spouse. This type of behavior can slow...
Continue ReadingProperty division in New Jersey: How do pensions fit in the mix?
When a couple makes the decision to divorce, there are a number of issues they need to discuss. One of those is property division. How are assets and debts split when a couple is soon to un-couple? One of the things that could be...
Continue ReadingDivorce may actually make relationships, parenting better
There may be times when the best way to keep a relationship intact is to separate. Some couples have said they became better friends and had better relationships with each other after divorce. Some New Jersey spouses might actually excel at divorce and become...
Continue ReadingTop tips include divorce mediation
Let’s face it. Everything seems a bit topsy turvy lately, and New Jersey residents are among those millions of Americans that feel like ordinary tasks have become difficult to handle. Add divorce into the mix, and everything can quickly seem overwhelming. Many individuals are...
Continue ReadingDoes divorce have an impact on adult children’s marriages?
There’s an old adage that says the fruit doesn’t fall far from the tree. But can the same be said about divorce? Are New Jersey adult children that come from parents who divorce more likely to end up divorcing as well? Experts have found...
Continue ReadingDid you notice these signs before filing for divorce?
You might feel alone in your current journey, and that is understandable. This is a difficult time in your life, and you may not have given much thought to the idea of divorce before. But no matter how alone you feel, many other people...
Continue ReadingProtecting kids from an angry parent during divorce
Not all marriages last a lifetime and some parents whose marriages do break down end their unions in an atmosphere of volatile emotions and high conflict. In New Jersey and elsewhere, this can be particularly difficult for children whose parents are going through this...
Continue ReadingShould you divorce or stay together for the kids’ sake?
Parents want to do what’s best for their kids and often make sacrifices in doing so. But when parents — of older children in particular — are in an unhappy marriage and decide to put off divorce for the sake of their children, they...
Continue ReadingFinancial security in the midst of divorce
These days marriage doesn’t always mean “til death do us part.” Since the stigma attached to divorce has all but been erased, more couples who have been in unhappy marriages for years are deciding to go their separate ways and suddenly people in their...
Continue ReadingIs it best to settle a divorce in or out of court?
Experts says the best scenario for a couple who is parting ways is to try to end things amicably. Sometimes, however, New Jersey couples who are in the throes of divorce may have trouble agreeing on things. The question then is, should they try...
Continue ReadingHow many marriages actually end in divorce?
The common notion for quite some time now is that about 50% of all marriages don’t last. But is that really a true picture of marriage and divorce? Divorce rates — including those in New Jersey — peaked in the 1970s and ’80s, but...
Continue ReadingAs a husband, could you get alimony in a divorce?
It is common for money to be a sticking point in divorce cases. For many New Jersey residents going through this process, concerns about alimony and child support exist. Though these types of support are often in marriage dissolution cases, it is often a...
Continue ReadingWhat happens to the engagement ring in a divorce situation?
An engagement of marriage is usually sealed with a ring. An engagement ring is meant to be a symbol of a couple’s intention to marry, but what happens to the ring when the marriage has fizzled and a couple decides to divorce? It’s not...
Continue ReadingDivorce can be costly, but it could be more costly not to divorce
A couple who is ending a marriage has many things to think about and one of those concerns finances. Divorce in New Jersey can often mean a significant financial outlay. In fact, the average cost for divorce in the United States is about $15,000...
Continue ReadingDivorce involving a child presents unique challenges
Breaking up with a spouse is never an easy process in New Jersey. This is particularly the case when the two people getting divorced have a young child who is stuck in the middle. Fortunately, some tips might make the process of getting a...
Continue ReadingHelpful advice to make divorce less stressful
It goes without saying that no couple gets married with the intent of someday ending the marriage. However, this is exactly what happens to nearly half of all marriages in New Jersey and across the United States. Divorce is not only very complicated, but...
Continue ReadingWhat could a parallel parenting plan do for your family?
To some extent, every divorce comes with emotional fallout. The question is whether you and your future former spouse can put it aside in order to co-parent. If the answer is no, it does not automatically mean you are headed to court to fight...
Continue ReadingWho is responsible for credit card debt in a divorce?
When a couple parts ways, not only are their assets on the table, but so are their debts. Frankly, creditors don’t care who pays the debt as long as it gets paid. Couples thinking about divorce need to understand who is responsible for credit...
Continue ReadingSafeguarding your assets in the divorce process in New Jersey
Being financially stable is a goal to which everyone aspires. So, those who find themselves in a divorce situation, should think about protecting their assets. New Jersey is an equitable distribution state and as such when couples divorce, marital property is not automatically split...
Continue ReadingShaping a child’s divorce story may create healthier adults
It’s a fact that children are often the ones who are most affected when their parents’ marriages end. The way New Jersey parents react to their own divorce situations may actually affect how children view the situation, according to experts and it can either...
Continue ReadingDoing the right things to make the divorce process smoother
The old song, “Breaking Up is Hard to Do,” isn’t too far from the truth. When it comes to divorce, there are things to do and things not to do to try to make the process as painless as possible. When New Jersey couples...
Continue ReadingWhen your decision to divorce doesn’t go over well
It’s a new year, and you may have decided that you don’t want to end another one married to your spouse. Regardless of what your issues are, you are not alone in this thinking. Many people here in New Jersey and elsewhere are of...
Continue ReadingDo I still need an attorney if I choose divorce mediation?
A new generation has come of age, and with the hypothetical “changing of the guard,” younger adults are changing the way certain matters have traditionally been handled by their parents and grandparents. The tech age has produced alternative options for how people work, raise...
Continue ReadingIs National Divorce Month a real thing?
Ending a marriage is no laughing matter, so New Jersey residents may be a bit taken aback by recent news headlines. National Divorce Month may sound like a joke, but many experts say there is some truth to the unofficial term. While certainly, there...
Continue ReadingNew tax laws to affect alimony payments
New Jersey has welcomed a new year, and for many residents, 2019 was full of big changes. In addition to holiday celebrations and annual festivities, ’tis the season to start thinking about tax returns. Several new laws have taken effect, and one of them...
Continue ReadingWhat to expect from a high asset divorce with no prenup in place
Each week, New Jersey residents tune in with viewers across the country to catch the latest episode of a favorite television show. Reality shows continue to keep viewers hooked, and people wait all week to see what the stars will do next. Shows like...
Continue ReadingDivorce mediation expert offers tips for co-parenting
It can be rough on children when parents split up. Many New Jersey parents may be stressing about choosing the perfect gift for a child, and when parents are divorced, it may feel like a competition with the other parent. A divorce mediation professional...
Continue ReadingYour divorce should not threaten your child’s college plans
Divorce is one of the most difficult things a couple can go through. If you have children, it may be even more challenging. Your focus is likely on immediate matters like where the children will live, how you will divide responsibilities for them, and...
Continue ReadingHeaded for a holiday divorce? You’re not alone, say experts
Christmas is right around the corner, and a new year is set to begin. Everywhere a person might go, there is some sort of holiday cheer. New Jersey residents might find themselves secretly feeling a bit annoyed and overwhelmed. The holiday season brings along...
Continue ReadingThere is no normal: A holiday divorce mantra
Even in modern America, it is not unusual for the holiday season to be idealized. Sometimes, it seems like every commercial on television shows the perfect family enjoying a perfect holiday, and parents may feel unreasonable pressure to live up to this unrealistic representation....
Continue ReadingThe impact of a new marriage on alimony
New Jersey residents might be surprised to learn that almost half of new marriages in the United States include at least one person that has been married before. People are not giving up on matrimony, but there might be a few more things to...
Continue ReadingAgree to disagree? How to approach topic of divorce mediation
Each year, New Jersey couples decide to end their marriage. Each divorce is different, and people may choose to call it quits for any number of reasons. Many people have serious concerns about struggling through a contentious split, and one thing that can help...
Continue ReadingIs your spouse refusing to cooperate with divorce mediation?
If your spouse has reluctantly agreed to use mediation to settle your divorce, you may have misgivings about how the process will go. Mediation requires the cooperation and commitment of both spouses, and if your soon-to-be-ex intends to fight you along the way, you...
Continue ReadingSingle Bell Rock: Divorce and the holidays
Winter is fast approaching, and some New Jersey residents have already spotted some snowflakes. The holiday season has officially begun, and many people are looking forward to celebrating with family and friends. For families dealing with divorce, it is natural to feel sad or...
Continue ReadingProperty division and the family pet
Sometimes, when a couple prepares to marry, they agree on a pre-nup. Especially in situations where one or both parties has assets that they want to protect in the event of a divorce, a pre-nup can specify such terms ahead of time. When it...
Continue ReadingHow will divorce affect your children?
Experts say that may be up to the divorcing parents. While certainly, a divorce will change the family dynamic, and children will have to get used to the “new normal,” it turns out that divorce can be made less traumatic on a child if...
Continue ReadingDivorce and child support: is there such a thing as too much?
New Jersey residents tune in with the rest of the nation to watch Good Morning, America, a long-running television program that mixes news and current events with pop culture, fashion trends, recipes and other topics of interest. Through the years, the show has seen...
Continue Reading3 financial mistakes to avoid in your divorce
It is a myth that half of all marriages end in divorce. Today, married couples only have a one-in-four chance of divorce, which means your odds are far better than at other points in American history. However, divorce in New Jersey still happens, and...
Continue ReadingConsider these steps to ensure a successful divorce mediation
If you’re adverse to conflict, then divorce is probably going to be an uncomfortable process for you. Litigation can force you to air all of your disputes with your spouse in open court, thereby leaving your personal life in the hands of a judge...
Continue ReadingProperty division during retirement can be tough on women
Gray divorces, which we have discussed previously on this blog, continue to increase in regularity. While many find the freedom provided through a late-life marriage dissolution exhilarating, others find the process financially debilitating. Sadly, this is especially true for women. By taking the following...
Continue ReadingInheritances and high-asset divorces
Not all divorces are created equal. Some are relatively straightforward with few assets to be divided, no children to fight over, and the parties agreeing on just about every legal issue. Others, though, are knock down, drag-out fights where each party has to be...
Continue ReadingKey considerations of business owners during divorce
Parties must work through a variety of issues when getting a divorce. For those who have a business, these things tend to compound. To make the divorce process work for them, those involved must understand the different aspects of the process. Particularly in regards...
Continue ReadingDealing with artwork during property division
The property division process can be as unique as the financial makeup of the individuals involved in a divorce. This means that couples that are dissolving their marriages need to be prepared to come up with customized legal solutions to their property division disputes....
Continue ReadingOur firm has decades of experience handling alimony disputes
As we recently discussed on the blog, there are many types of alimony that can be awarded during the course of divorce. Depending on your circumstances, you may choose to aggressively seek a particular type of alimony that best meets your financial needs. On...
Continue ReadingSome common contributors to divorce
Although some reports indicate that the divorce rate is declining, it still feels like divorce is more prevalent than ever. In fact, statistics show that nearly half of all marriages end in divorce. The average length of a marriage prior to divorce is seven...
Continue ReadingTips to deal with the emotional aspects of divorce
Divorce can take a toll on just about every aspect of your life. Financially, of course, one’s marriage dissolution will probably leave them with less income and fewer assets with which to build a new life. Yet, most New Jersey residents who seek out...
Continue ReadingThere are multiple types of alimony in New Jersey
There are a number of divorce legal issues that can reshape your post-divorce life. Child custody, of course, is a big one, but no other legal issues may affect your financial health more than alimony. Those who are successfully able to seek alimony, the...
Continue ReadingMediation may help your divorce go smoother
When two people decide to end a marriage, it may begin a long and arduous process to separate everything. During the divorce process, tension and emotions may run high, making every decision that much more difficult to get through. New Jersey couples who go...
Continue ReadingThings to consider before engaging in property division
There’s no doubt that the property division process can shape your post-divorce life. Depending on the outcome of the process, you can be left feeling like you got a fair shake out of your marriage dissolution or you end up feeling cheated. There are...
Continue ReadingWhat brutal divorce tactics should you watch out for?
It may be a sad reality, but divorce often brings out the worst in people. Those who have been emotionally or financially hurt can lash out, making resolution of important marriage dissolution issues seemingly impossible. This can make the divorce process longer and costlier...
Continue ReadingProperty division and the family home
Many New Jersey families build a lifetime of memories in their familial home. This can make it difficult to part ways with the residence when a divorce occurs, especially when children are involved because one or both parents may be concerned about how a...
Continue ReadingChild custody and the character and fitness evaluation
While the financial ramifications of divorce can be significant, many New Jersey couples find themselves more concerned about something more important: their children. After all, the outcome of a child custody dispute can lay the framework for an individual’s relationship with his or her...
Continue ReadingSeparate bank accounts don’t always avoid property division
Marriage isn’t a one-size fits all arrangement. These relationships can take various forms, and what works for one Marlton couple may not work for another. That is why the relational expectations and the way finances are handled may differ significantly between baby boomer and...
Continue ReadingCreating a valid prenuptial agreement
Though most couples do not get married expecting to get a divorce, that is the case for several parties. Therefore, having a prenuptial agreement in place can be quite beneficial. A proper prenuptial agreement can aid in making the divorce process smoother. To ensure...
Continue ReadingReasons why the length of alimony may be adjusted
Regardless of which side of the fence you stand on during an alimony dispute, there can be a lot at stake. For an individual who is seeking spousal support, the outcome of these matters can shape his or her standard of living for years,...
Continue ReadingHigh-asset divorce and the benefits of forensic accounting
When it comes to high-asset divorces, there is a lot on the line. A poorly negotiated or litigated divorce can be extremely costly, leaving an individual with less financial resources than he or she deserves. This is why it is critical that those who...
Continue ReadingChild support modification may be within reach
As the posts on this blog often point out, divorce can have very significant financial ramifications for New Jersey residents. Those who are crafty in their legal dealing regarding marriage dissolution can find themselves exiting marriage on firm financial footing. Those who fail to...
Continue ReadingChild custody and the best interests standard
Child custody is one of the most highly contested divorce legal issues. It is not limited to those who are dissolving their marriages, as parents of children born out of wedlock can also face child custody disputes. Oftentimes in these situations each parent believes...
Continue ReadingDoes wealth protect you from divorce?
The most common reasons for divorce seem to be financial worries, infidelity and lack of communication. It may seem natural to assume that having the opposite of those trends would equal a stronger marriage. But does having more money really protect you from divorce?...
Continue ReadingWill mediation work if I have a high conflict case?
While divorce mediation is not right for every New Jersey couple going through a split, people who are in a high conflict separation should not get scared off from the process automatically. Through no fault of their own, many people do wind up in...
Continue ReadingPutting a value on investment residential real estate related matters
Many couples in New Jersey own additional properties, such as homes or even commercial buildings, that they use to make additional income. In some cases, a residential real estate related matters investment business can be so lucrative that the couple can devote their energy...
Continue ReadingComing to terms with “fairness” and alimony in a divorce case
Many people in New Jersey get divorced for a very simple reason: they no longer want to have any type of relationship with their ex-spouse. So, when spousal support – commonly known as “alimony” – is an issue in a divorce case, it can...
Continue ReadingWorking through a checklist of assets in property division
When some people think about the property division part of a divorce case, they think of splitting everything they own “50/50” with their soon-to-be ex-spouse. However, in New Jersey, that isn’t always exactly how things end up. In family courts in New Jersey, the...
Continue ReadingWhat should you expect in divorce mediation?
There are some divorcing couples in New Jersey who, despite the fact that they are ending their marriage, can be civil enough with each other to consider divorce mediation to get through the legal process. Of course, such an option doesn’t work for everyone....
Continue ReadingDivorcing in 2019? Know these new tax laws
As someone who divorced since the year began, or as someone who foresees a divorce in your near future, it is important that you recognize how new tax laws that took effect this year can affect you. People who divorce this year and moving...
Continue ReadingGetting through a divorce if you are over the age of 50
Many of our readers in New Jersey have probably heard the term “grey divorce,” which, generally speaking, usually involves people over the age of 50 going through a divorce, as opposed to younger individuals. Many people have probably also heard the common refrain that...
Continue ReadingHigh asset divorces can seem more contentious than other cases
Any given divorce case will involve quite a range of issues to address, from child custody and support to alimony and property division. However, when a couple has a significant amount of assets, it is the property division part of the divorce case that...
Continue ReadingCrucial tips to get through a divorce case in New Jersey
Many New Jersey residents who are considering filing for divorce may feel quite a bit of trepidation about the move. As a result, they have many questions that they feel need to be answered. A recent article had a number of tips for those...
Continue ReadingPrenuptial agreement: How to include a special needs child
When cohabitation moves toward an engagement to marry, partners with significant assets may decide they want a prenuptial agreement. The partners are aware of their separate and joint assets. There is one consideration that makes this high-asset couple different: They are parents of a...
Continue ReadingThe property division problem for stay-at-home parents
In New Jersey, as in the rest of the country, it seems that the vast majority of parents – both mothers and fathers – are in the workforce earning an income. However, approximately 25% of mothers stay at home to take care of their...
Continue ReadingWhat questions determine alimony issues in a divorce?
Alimony issues in a Marlton divorce can cause fervent and contentious confrontations between the two sides. Many people who are involved in a divorce are looking for a “clean break” to the relationship which has taken a turn for the worse. Alimony is a...
Continue ReadingNavigating complicated issues with divorce mediation
It might be obvious that if a couple is getting a divorce those individuals probably have a hard time agreeing on many topics. But, just because that was the state of the relationship in the months or years leading up to the divorce doesn’t...
Continue ReadingThe complex divorce issue of dividing business assets
Although divorcing spouses oftentimes work together during the legal process to divide assets in a fair manner, there are times when a unique asset can cause friction, even when the spouses are negotiating amicably. Business assets, particularly a family business, can be difficult to...
Continue ReadingWhat should you know about feelings and emotions in a divorce?
Many people who are going through a divorce in New Jersey are able to focus on the practical aspects of the case, including ways to address legal issues such as property division, child custody, child support and alimony. This focus can be useful in...
Continue ReadingWhat you put in writing may come back to haunt you
When couples call it quits, emotions and tensions run increasingly high. Even before the process begins, many of these same spouses have begun to uncouple emotionally and even physically. The higher the stakes in a divorce, the higher the pressure and stress. Anger and...
Continue ReadingAvoiding impulsive decisions in a divorce case
Being involved in a divorce case can be a highly-charged emotional experience. In any given case, the divorcing couple will need to address potentially contentious issues such as property division, alimony, child custody and child support, among others. When emotions run high, it is...
Continue ReadingHow do you define “marital property” in a high-asset divorce?
When New Jersey residents are involved in a high-asset divorce, one question may override all others: who gets what? But, to solve that problem, exact legal terms will come into play, none more important than the term “marital property.” So, how do you define...
Continue ReadingThe advantages of mediation in a divorce case
Although many New Jersey residents probably think that every divorce case is a bitter feud between two soon-to-be ex-spouses, that isn’t always the case. Some couples can actually work together, relatively speaking, in order to advance the case in a civil and purposeful way....
Continue ReadingHigh-profile divorce case comes to a conclusion
Our readers in New Jersey are probably aware of one of the most high-profile divorce cases in the Northeast, and perhaps the country: the divorce of Donald Trump, Jr. and his wife. Any news story with the name “Trump” in it is at the...
Continue ReadingVarious criteria used to determine alimony in New Jersey
Many divorce cases in New Jersey involve contentious disputes about child support, child custody and property division. However, the one issue that can really cause debilitating strife in the legal proceedings is a request for alimony. After all, most divorcing spouses view the end...
Continue ReadingShould you avoid using social media amid divorce?
Going through a divorce can make you feel exceptionally lonely, and if you are likely many people in your shoes, you may be relying on social media more than ever during this difficult time. Doing so can, in some cases, come back to bite...
Continue ReadingCould financial secrets lead to a divorce?
The cause of any given divorce can vary considerably. Sometimes people just “grow apart,” while in other situations there is some affirmative act that leads one spouse to divorce the other. A recent news article took a look at one potential cause of divorce:...
Continue ReadingA wide range of factors can impact the property division process
When New Jersey residents get stressed out during the property division part of their divorce cases, it is understandable. After all, many married couples spend years – even decades – accumulating wealth together. To have a divorce case implement the necessity of dividing all...
Continue ReadingWhat are the basics about child support?
When couples who have children begin the divorce process to end their married relationship, they are probably fully aware that child support will be one of the important issues to address in the legal process. However, many of those same couples have questions about...
Continue ReadingWhy a prenup may be exactly what you need
As you and your beloved plan your wedding, you likely are caught up in venues, guest lists, dresses, cakes and all the other things that go along with planning a wedding and reception. But in all this happy frenzy, you would do well to...
Continue ReadingStaying focused during divorce mediation
It is understandable that many people who are going through a divorce in New Jersey might get sidetracked during the process by emotions and minor points that may not have a significant impact on a person’s life after the divorce process is finalized. If...
Continue ReadingRichest man in the world set to go through high asset divorce
By now everyone in New Jersey knows about the online retailer Amazon. The use of this service is becoming so prevalent that the company is becoming one of the most valuable companies in the world. That has made the owner of Amazon, Jeff Bezos,...
Continue ReadingUnderstanding the implications of a high asset divorce
Everyone knows that a divorce ends a marriage so that the two people involved in the relationship can, hopefully, move on to a better life. However, a divorce is more than just an opportunity to get out of a relationship that isn’t living up...
Continue ReadingAre trends shifting in divorce court when it comes to alimony?
Alimony is always a hot-button issue in a divorce in New Jersey. It is fairly obvious to see why: when spouses are getting ready to go their separate ways, one soon-to-be ex-spouse is typically not in favor of continuing to make financial payments to...
Continue ReadingGet a full view of assets in the property division process
Throughout the course of a marriage most couples in New Jersey will accumulate quite a few assets. Some of the most valuable assets can include the family home, vehicles, retirement accounts and even valuable personal property, such as artwork. When a marriage ends in...
Continue ReadingA look at the financial considerations in a gray divorce
There are many changes as people go through life, and some can lead to divorce for a long-married couple. Divorce for an older couple may be more amicable than it would have been at a younger age, but it may also be more complicated...
Continue ReadingWhy do married couples get divorced?
When some couples in New Jersey are faced with the realistic possibility of ending a marriage in a divorce, they will often think, “Where did it go wrong?” After all, no one gets married with plans on ultimately getting a divorce. But, the reality,...
Continue ReadingThe benefits of divorce mediation
No one gets married thinking that the union might end in a divorce, but we all know by now that the reality is that many marriages do end in this manner. While it may seem unfortunate to those who are on the outside looking...
Continue ReadingIs the divorce rate in America really dropping?
For decades most people in New Jersey have heard the common refrain that approximately 50 percent of all marriages in America end in a divorce. However, a recent report noted that this is not actually true anymore. Is the divorce rate in America really...
Continue ReadingTyping things you may wind up regretting during divorce
Once you know you are getting divorced, there are a few practices you may want to start pulling back on. Living in a digital age makes it easy for people to put life on display for prying eyes. One of the worst things you...
Continue ReadingHow can you deal with emotions of a divorce during the holidays?
The holiday season is upon us, and for most people this can be a great time of year to visit with friends and family. However, it can also be a time of stress as well. This is particularly true for those New Jersey residents...
Continue ReadingKnow what you are getting into when it comes to alimony
When New Jersey residents are part of a divorce case, they probably expect to encounter quite a few bumps in the road during the process. After all, in many cases, the situation already starts out with two people who are obviously not overly fond...
Continue ReadingConsider all your assets in the property division process
Most people have more assets than they realize. This is especially true for married couples. Throughout the course of a marriage, couples will accumulate residential real estate related matters, vehicles, retirement accounts and valuable personal property, just to name a few examples. When a...
Continue ReadingShould you settle your divorce case quickly to save money?
Divorcing couples in New Jersey often have a wide variety of questions about how the dissolution process will work. Each divorce case is different, but many will involve common issues: child custody and support, alimony and property division. For some couples in a high...
Continue ReadingWhat do you need to know about divorce mediation?
There are probably quite a few New Jersey residents who make the decision to get a divorce without fully assessing the options for getting through the process. For some, there is a preconceived notion that the divorce case must play out in a courtroom,...
Continue ReadingWhat will become of the business you own during divorce?
Divorce not only brings changes to your personal life, but also to your working life, especially if you and your spouse are in business together. Your company is a major asset, important to both of you. What happens to it during the property division...
Continue ReadingKnow the options in a high asset divorce
No two divorce cases in New Jersey are the same. Some are amicable, in which the couple can agree on most of the terms of the divorce out-of-court and submit an agreement to the court for approval. Others are contentious, seeing the couple fight...
Continue ReadingSeeing signs that your marriage might be headed for divorce?
No one in New Jersey gets married thinking that it is possible that the union will end in divorce. However, we all know that this is a possibility in many marriages. Sometimes, the realization that the relationship is headed for a divorce happens quickly....
Continue ReadingHow common is divorce in America?
For decades now many people have said that it is common knowledge that the divorce rate in America is about 50 percent, meaning that half of all marriages end in divorce. But, is that really the case? How common is divorce in America? A...
Continue ReadingThe basics about alimony in a divorce
Many divorces in New Jersey will include a claim by one spouse or the other for alimony, also known as “spousal support.” However, many people do not know the basics about alimony and how it might be ordered as part of a divorce decree....
Continue ReadingWhat can you do to prepare to talk about property division?
As previous posts here have mentioned, there are quite a number of potential issues to prepare to address in a divorce case. But, for many people, besides the issues that deal with their children, the main concern is property division. So, what can you...
Continue ReadingHow do I escape an abusive marriage?
If you have attempted to leave an abusive relationship before, you are aware of the threatening, controlling and intimidating tactics your spouse uses to keep you under his or her control. Like many New Jersey residents in the same situation, you may have given...
Continue ReadingIs divorce mediation right for you?
Thousands of New Jersey residents go through the divorce process each year. Although no one enters into a marriage with expectations that a divorce may be necessary at some point in the future, the reality is that divorce is fairly common. In many cases,...
Continue ReadingElderly people weigh the consequences of “gray divorce”
Like most major decisions in life, divorce comes with “pros” and “cons” to consider. For instance, couples with minor children will want to consider how the divorce will affect the lives of their children, particularly when it comes to different child custody arrangements. Or,...
Continue ReadingThe basics about prenuptial agreements
Most of our readers in New Jersey know that prenuptial agreements – or “prenups” – are agreements that couples enter into prior to marriage to come to terms on potential issues if the marriage ends in divorce. Many people probably think, “That’s not very...
Continue ReadingWhat do New Jersey courts consider when determining alimony?
Alimony is a part of many divorce cases throughout the country, but each state has its own rules as to how this financial obligation is awarded, for how long and to which spouse. So, what do New Jersey courts consider when determining alimony in...
Continue ReadingTexting and divorce
In recent years, the divorce rate in New Jersey has decreased substantially. In fact, the state actually has the third lowest divorce rate in the country as of 2017. Although the divorce rate has gone down, one aspect of it that has increased is...
Continue ReadingMatt Lauer’s high asset divorce case could be coming to an end
Celebrity divorces always seem to make the news, and there always seem to be a number of them going on at the same time. Right now, one of the most heavily-covered high asset divorces is the one that Matt Lauer is involved in with...
Continue ReadingHow your life will change going through a high asset divorce
Thousands of divorce cases go through the New Jersey court system every year. However, not all of those cases involve high asset divorces, in which the couple going through the divorce has accumulated quite a bit of assets throughout the course of the marriage....
Continue ReadingThe legal requirements to pursue a divorce in New Jersey
For many years the rate of divorces in America was rising. As a result, most people began to think that they could just get a divorce whenever and wherever they wanted. However, in New Jersey, like all other states, there are certain legal requirements...
Continue ReadingWhat can you expect in property division with a divorce?
Going through a divorce can be a trying time for any New Jersey resident. There are a litany of issues to address in the divorce process, including child support and child custody in many cases, as well as alimony. But, for many people, the...
Continue ReadingConsiderations for choosing a divorce mediator
Although this blog has discussed under what circumstances divorce mediation can be a good option, an equally important consideration for Marlton, New Jersey, residents is who to choose as a mediator. While there are plenty of divorce mediators and child custody mediators out there...
Continue ReadingWhat you might expect to receive after a short marriage
If you divorce after being married for, say, three years, the division of your assets may look different than it would if you had been married 30 years. For example, 30 years is a lot more time for inheritances and other premarital assets to...
Continue ReadingCan alimony be addressed in a premarital agreement?
This blog has on previous occasions discussed prenuptial agreements, which, under New Jersey law, are technically referred to as premarital agreements. While premarital agreements are commonly thought of in the context of an absolute divorce, New Jersey residents may wish to enter into one...
Continue ReadingWhat are my options if I am not receiving my alimony?
As previous posts on this blog have discussed, New Jersey law allows spouses who are separating to seek an award of alimony from the other spouse. These payments are often very important to the livelihood of the person receiving them. Among other things, alimony...
Continue ReadingWhat should I bring to a divorce mediation?
Especially for those who have no experience with it, divorce mediation or child custody mediation outside the context of divorce can be a daunting prospect. In light of that, some people may wonder what exactly they should bring to their mediation and how they...
Continue ReadingWhat is sentimental value?
When in the midst of the property division that takes place after one files a New Jersey divorce, including a bed and board divorce, the couple must take the important but often difficult and contentious step of putting a value on their marital property....
Continue Reading3 essential rules for social media use during divorce
Most people have opinions about social media one way or the other. Perhaps you are a devoted user who enjoys sharing daily updates with followers, or maybe you are opposed to social media and feel that it facilitates oversharing. Regardless of which side you...
Continue ReadingHow can I get my parenting time enforced?
Although it is generally speaking better when New Jersey parents who are living apart are able to get along, in many cases, they simply are not able to do so. This is not always a mutual thing. Sometimes, because he or she simply does...
Continue ReadingRepresentation in high income child support disputes
A previous post on this blog from several months ago talked about how New Jersey law handles situations in which one or both parents make so much money that New Jersey’s Child Support Guidelines do not account for the full extent of their income....
Continue ReadingBaseball star locked in child support dispute
Baseball fans in New Jersey are probably familiar with Miguel Cabrera, who is a Major League first baseman. Some may have even heard that he is now in a battle off the field with a former girlfriend. Although Cabrera is married and has three...
Continue ReadingConsidering the tax implications of high asset property division
In a high asset divorce in New Jersey, which can include a divorce from bed and board, one of the most important considerations a Marlton resident must take into account are the tax implications of the divorce and, specifically, the ensuing division of property....
Continue ReadingHow text messages affect divorce proceedings
Although many assume their text messages are private, that is no longer the case when it comes to divorce court. An increasing number of cases involve one or both spouses’ text messages coming up as evidence. New Jersey is one of the states in...
Continue ReadingParenting plans in New Jersey
Even when both parents who are going through a divorce or are no longer living together are going to be able to agree on custody and even the basics of who is going to have what time with the child, there still can be...
Continue ReadingMediation is available for property disputes too
Many of the previous posts on this blog have discussed how Marlton, New Jersey, couples often try and may even be ordered to try mediation when they are having a custody or parenting time dispute. While this process often is effective in resolving such...
Continue ReadingHow does one put a value on artwork?
One of the most difficult things to put a precise value on without just selling it is a piece of unique artwork. The fact that fine art is hard to value can present problems during the property division process following a divorce or a...
Continue ReadingCommon questions about divorce mediation
Although this blog has tried to clear up some of the mystery surrounding the divorce mediation process, many New Jersey residents may still have a number of questions about how mediation will work or what they should or should not do to prepare for...
Continue Reading3 social media tips during a divorce
In today’s digital landscape, divorce is nothing like it used to be. Matters that once remained private can now be quickly broadcasted on a variety of social media platforms. Digital etiquette during a divorce is an important factor to consider. Understanding how to manage...
Continue ReadingRepresentation for alimony disputes
As a previous post on this blog discussed, an award of alimony is not a given in any type of divorce proceeding. Moreover, the amount and duration of the award can depend on a lot of different factors that are largely left up to...
Continue ReadingReview of factors courts use when awarding alimony
Although this blog has discussed them before, it may be helpful to our Marlton, New Jersey, readers to review what factors a New Jersey court uses when deciding whether to award alimony and in what amount to award it. There is actually a list...
Continue ReadingConfidentiality: an advantage to divorce mediation
As this blog has discussed before, divorce mediation is an option for Marlton, New Jersey, residents who want to take an alternative route to litigating a family law issue. While not suitable for all cases, the process of mediation offers several advantages to a...
Continue ReadingWhat is a QDRO?
Even if they have heard the acronym “QDRO” before, many Marlton, New Jersey, residents may not be familiar with the term. QDRO is short for “qualified domestic relations order.” Unlike a divorce decree or other order entered in a family law case, a QDRO...
Continue ReadingMore men receive alimony in divorce
There are many outdated gender norms that still plague society. One of the most common is that the man in a marriage should be the primary breadwinner. Decades ago, it was extremely common for men divorcing their wives to have to pay a certain...
Continue ReadingRepresenting clients in discovery requests and disputes
A previous post discussed how the ordinary means of finding out about a spouse’s assets and debts in the process of a divorce or bed and board divorce is to use the various means of legal discovery provided under New Jersey law. Typically, the...
Continue ReadingThe role of New Jersey’s discovery rules in finding assets
In any New Jersey divorce, including a bed and board divorce, it can be hard for one spouse to know that he or she is in fact getting his or her fair share of all the assets to which the law entitles him or...
Continue ReadingParenting coordinators, mediators and guardians ad litem
In a previous post, this blog described what a guardian ad litem is and what role this court officer plays in a child custody case. To summarize, a guardian ad litem is a neutral person, not affiliated with either parent, who has experience in...
Continue ReadingWhat a guardian ad litem does in a child custody case
It is always a good thing, both for the couple and the couple’s children, when two parents in the course of a divorce or other family law disputes can get along with respect to child custody and visitation plans. However, a New Jersey resident...
Continue ReadingHow do I modify my New Jersey child support order?
Unlike many other court decisions, a New Jersey parent can ask for a family law court to revisit a child support order from time to time. This is because New Jersey law recognizes that the circumstances of parents and their children oftentimes change, and...
Continue Reading3 reasons you need a pre-nuptial agreement
It used to be that prenuptial agreements were mainly talked about when it came to high-profile divorces, such as those between celebrities. However, nowadays, with the changing cultural landscape around marriage and divorce, prenuptial agreements make a lot of sense for a wide variety...
Continue ReadingMediating a high conflict custody case is possible
As this blog has discussed previously, there are some situations in which it is best for parents and those involved in a custody dispute to admit that mediation is just not an appropriate forum in a particular case, even though divorce mediation or other...
Continue ReadingWhat will a court look for when determining custody?
Because the focus of any custody order is the best interests of the children involved, and because what is in the best interests of a child can change, it makes sense that New Jersey courts should consider a number of factors before deciding upon...
Continue ReadingHow well does divorce mediation work?
Some New Jersey residents may wonder how much of the talk about the benefits of child custody mediation is hype and how often mediation actually works. Others may wonder whether mediation works long-term even if a couple manages to forge together an agreement at...
Continue ReadingTaking the mystery out of the mediation process
In addition to legal services, this law office offers mediation services to divorcing New Jersey couples or parents who need it in order to resolve their family law disputes. Especially for those who have not been through it before, mediation can be a mysterious...
Continue ReadingIs discussing college expenses worth it when your kids are young?
When you begin divorce proceedings and have young children, college expenses may be way down on your list of concerns to discuss and resolve throughout the divorce process. For example, co-parenting and fair property division may be at the top of your list. However,...
Continue ReadingHow property division works for unmarried NJ couples
These days, there are many more people in New Jersey who, for whatever reason, choose to live together and maintain a household long term without legally getting married. These couples may have children together, and they may combine their income and assets in such...
Continue ReadingThe evolving tax consequences of alimony
Many residents of Marlton, New Jersey, have to pay alimony or face the consequences of ignoring a court order to do so. While not everyone necessarily sees this as a burden, many people do. The silver lining for them is that, at least through...
Continue ReadingThe current status of palimony in New Jersey
Even as more people choose to live together without being married, the law in New Jersey still offers special protections to those who are legally wed. Unlike married couples, unmarried couples have to go almost piecemeal through a series of legal hoops in the...
Continue ReadingCourt-ordered custody mediation in New Jersey
Previous posts on this blog have discussed when child custody mediation might be a good idea for New Jersey parents to consider. Other posts have discussed those times in which parents might not want to pursue mediation as an option, such as when one...
Continue ReadingShould you consider mediation for your divorce?
If you are facing a divorce, you have many decisions to make, and the entire process can seem very overwhelming. In addition to the emotional stress and turmoil you are going through due to the breakup of your marriage, there are all the questions...
Continue ReadingObtaining a restraining order in New Jersey
Any married couple in New Jersey, no matter their socioeconomic background, culture or beliefs, is susceptible to domestic violence, whether as a victim or as a perpetrator. Just because it can affect anyone, no one should think domestic violence is “okay” or something someone...
Continue ReadingAlimony in a ‘bed and board’ divorce
Unlike several other states, New Jersey does not have a formal process for legal separation as opposed to a divorce. Instead, Marlton residents who want something along the lines of a legal separation can file for a “bed and board” divorce. The result of...
Continue ReadingPlacing a value on the family business
Many New Jersey residents own their own businesses or have a share of ownership in a family business. If successful, these business interests can be a source of a great deal of wealth and income for a Marlton couple, especially if they both are...
Continue ReadingHow college education expenses get divided in New Jersey
As previous posts on this blog have discussed, New Jersey has child support guidelines that are supposed to help courts come to an amount each parent should be responsible for in order to allow their children to maintain the same standard of living as...
Continue ReadingIs mediating child custody disputes always a good idea?
This blog has discussed in previous posts how New Jersey parents should consider mediating like child custody and support instead of just taking the matter before a judge. It is true that when parents get along, at least with respect to the raising of...
Continue ReadingJob loss may or may not be basis for child support reduction
It is not unusual for a New Jersey parent who as an obligation to pay child support to fall on difficult times, particularly over the past several years when the economy was not very strong and the job market suffered. A parent who experiences...
Continue ReadingHow do you put a value on a small business?
Many New Jersey residents own their own businesses. Sometimes, this is just a small, part-time operation that supplements income from a husband and wife’s day jobs. At other times, the business really takes on a life of its own and becomes the means of...
Continue ReadingHow New Jersey’s support guidelines treat high income
Like other states, New Jersey has child support guidelines which help judges in this state make fair and consistent decisions about how much child support a parent should pay. Most New Jersey parents going through a divorce or, for that matter, a paternity case,...
Continue ReadingWhy try divorce mediation in New Jersey?
Previous posts here have discussed various issues that New Jersey residents may encounter when going through the divorce process. From child support and alimony, to the reasons one can plead in the state’s courts to request the marriage be dissolved, many of these have...
Continue ReadingThe grounds for a divorce in New Jersey
Many married couples throughout New Jersey experience bumps and challenges in their relationships that can test the commitment of the partners to their shared martial experience. While in most cases partners can work through their differences and emerge from their conflicts with strong martial...
Continue ReadingDivorcing after a short marriage
New Jersey is actually home to one of the lowest divorce rates in the United States. Roughly 9 percent of adults in the state divorce, and one component of this seems to be that people in New Jersey tend to marry at an older...
Continue ReadingWhat are extraordinary expenses in New Jersey child support?
Most parents in New Jersey understand that if they end up getting a divorce there is a likelihood that one of them may end up paying some form of child support if the other parent is given the right to be the primary residential...
Continue ReadingCan there be “permanent alimony” in a New Jersey divorce?
Lawyers will carefully choose the words they use in making arguments before courts in hopes of getting a better outcome. Legislatures also change the wording of the laws being argued about, in order to create a desired public reaction. One of these latter changes...
Continue ReadingWealth is sometimes hidden in high-asset divorces
When it comes to divorce in New Jersey, the laws are supposed to apply to everyone equally. The individual who rents a small apartment and works in a factory has to equitably divide his or her assets with the divorcing spouse, just as the...
Continue ReadingAlimony is not automatic
One of the most stressful consequences of a divorce is losing the financial support of your spouse. Individuals who make less than their spouse, cannot work because of injury or stay at home with children can be in a tight spot when it comes...
Continue ReadingSeparate assets can become distributable marital assets
Equitable distribution in New Jersey typically applies to the assets that either spouse obtained during the time of the marriage. It also applies to jointly obtained assets. The time range excludes the period after one spouse has filed a divorce complaint that remains pending....
Continue ReadingHow does divorce mediation work?
Just because a New Jersey couple has decided to divorce, does not mean that they necessarily want to “get back” at each other. However, one way to lessen the emotional stress of divorce is to try to engage in divorce mediation. Through divorce mediation,...
Continue ReadingDividing future securities interests in a New Jersey divorce
Getting a divorce can be difficult. Between the emotional stress of a marriage termination and the anxiety of dealing with legal issues, such as property division or child custody and support, it can make one just want to get it over with. However, it...
Continue ReadingWhat to do and avoid to create a valid prenuptial agreement
Like most other states, New Jersey allows couples contemplating marriage to enter into prenuptial agreements. These agreements, which, incidentally, can also be beneficial even to couples that have never been divorced and have no plans to divorce, help with important property division issues and...
Continue ReadingThe rules of New Jersey property division
Asset division can be a hot-button topic for many divorcing couples, especially in a high-asset case. Understanding the fundamentals of how New Jersey law approaches division can help you know what to expect. New Jersey numbers among the states following the equitable division approach....
Continue ReadingState Supreme Court changes custody relocation standard
New Jersey divorce issues, such as child custody, are not necessarily resolved with the decree or settlement. These issues sometimes resurface after the end of the marriage. The state Supreme Court addressed one of these issues and reversed its legal standard for ruling on...
Continue ReadingPreparing for divorce mediation
Divorcing spouses who are willing to cooperate may play a larger role in resolving divorce legal issues through divorce mediation in New Jersey. When they mediate disputes, they do not have to accept a judge’s decision and can reject any proposal that they do...
Continue ReadingWorking to keep divorce from affecting your job performance
Many legal, financial and emotional challenges accompany divorce in New Jersey. Limiting the impact of these matters on your performance at work is difficult but essential to avoid lost employment or income at the end of a marriage. Work should be restricted to work,...
Continue ReadingNew Jersey changes relocation laws for divorced parents
When a couple with children divorces, one parent may be granted primary custody of the child while the other gets visitation and is asked to pay child support. A major post-divorce issue for many of these couples is relocation. The custodial parent may want...
Continue ReadingMediation lowers conflict
Divorces in New Jersey that proceed to the courthouse are often overly-adversarial and conflicts may escalate. Divorce mediation, on the other hand, may bring the spouses into a collaborative process that allows them to settle divorce issues that are the most meaningful to them...
Continue ReadingWhat are some essentials for prenuptial agreements?
When a couple in New Jersey is planning their wedding, they may be consumed with finding the right caterer, florist and venue. However, they should also give some thought to their post-wedding lives before they walk down the aisle, including drafting a prenuptial agreement....
Continue ReadingEnding a bad marriage earlier can save on alimony
In recent years, New Jersey reformed its alimony laws in a manner that relates the amount of alimony to the duration of the marriage, particularly for marriages that were less than 20 years in length. As such, if a person is in a marriage...
Continue ReadingEnd joint bank accounts and credit cards with the marriage
Over the years of marriage, couples in New Jersey amass a good deal of assets, some of which are very valuable. While of course some assets, such as the family home, are tangible, there are other, less tangible assets, such as bank accounts. However,...
Continue ReadingBeware these divorce myths
A divorce may be challenging and tumultuous. It may be more difficult if spouses in New Jersey are influenced by long-standing myths about this process. These falsehoods can have financial consequences. First, adultery has no impact on property division or spousal support. New Jersey...
Continue ReadingThe importance of a prenup
Prenuptial agreements are quickly becoming the norm for any marriage. In fact, a report in Time Magazine showed that Millennials, more than previous generations, are hopping aboard the idea that prenups are fundamentally a good thing when it comes to marriage. Many people are...
Continue ReadingDon’t forget the engagement ring in a prenup
A prenuptial agreement can prevent many disputes and litigation costs over property division in a New Jersey divorce. Any advantages are more likely if these agreements are well-drafted and address property that has the potential for a dispute. When negotiating and drafting these agreements,...
Continue ReadingFinancial decisions in a divorce can be complicated
Property division in a high asset divorce in New Jersey involves complex decisions, which are hampered by the emotions and turmoil accompanying the end of a marriage. However, certain financial matters require especially objective and reasoned judgments. For example, a spouse should create an...
Continue ReadingHow do courts decide what’s ‘equitable’?
The property division process of divorce is often quite contentious. Considering what is at stake, from your home to future financial security, it is no surprise that people see this step as a battle. However, one way to ease some of the contention associated...
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