Social media is a place where people can share information about just about anything they’re interested in. Some people share even the small details of daily life, while others share only special milestones or vacation pictures. All of this might change if someone is going through a divorce.
For those who post regularly on social media, being careful while going through divorce and even after is critical – especially for those co-parenting children. Because of this, some people opt to avoid social media throughout the divorce.
If you opt to remain active on social media, here are some things to remember.
Perceptions can vary greatly
Before posting statuses, comments, photos, or videos on social media, take the time to think about the information might be perceived. Remember, your soon-to-be ex might be looking for things that put you in a negative light.
For example, you may post a photo by a beach home with a statement about enjoying vacation. Your spouse may try to make it seem like you are hiding assets because you’re living a lavish lifestyle. The truth might be that you went to visit a friend who lives on the beach, so your cost was minimal.
Screenshots preserve deleted posts
Some people post on social media with the understanding that they can delete the post if they decide that they don’t like it. While that’s possible, it’s also possible that your spouse or someone they know may have taken a screenshot of the post before you deleted it. That could mean that the post can still be used against you. With that in mind, it’s best to only post things on your social media accounts that you don’t mind being shown or read in open court.
Social media presence is only one thing that people going through a divorce have to consider. If you have experienced legal guidance during your divorce, you can be sure that you have the information you need to make informed decisions about every aspect of this life-changing legal process.