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How to do well during your divorce

On Behalf of | Aug 31, 2022 | Blog, Divorce

Although no divorce is easy, there are steps that you may be able to take to end your marriage the right way. For example, you can help yourself, your spouse and your children by showing copious amounts of empathy throughout the process. Showing empathy and grace toward others may make it easier for all parties involved to validate and process their emotions in a healthy manner.

There is no need to fight

A divorce will likely trigger negative emotions such as grief, anxiety or fear. However, that is not an excuse to belittle your spouse or to ignore your children. Showing respect to the person who you are leaving may make them more likely to negotiate in good faith to reach an equitable divorce settlement. It can also make it easier to remain an authority figure in good standing with your child.

Everyone contributes to a failed marriage

Typically, people tend to cite their partners as the reason why their marriages failed. However, in most cases, the truth is that both parties in the relationship contributed to its demise. Therefore, it’s important to step back and consider what you could have done differently to potentially keep the marriage intact. Alternatively, taking time for self-reflection can help you brainstorm ideas for how you can conduct yourself in a more understanding or empathetic manner in your next relationship.

Don’t hesitate to seek outside help

There is no shame in working with a mental health professional to help you process your emotions. If you have children, it may also be a good idea to provide them with someone to talk to. Of course, you should still make yourself available as they may be more comfortable talking to you instead of a stranger.

Ideally, you will begin to prepare for a divorce hearing as soon as you think that your marriage might be coming to an end. The more information that you have, the easier it will likely be to negotiate in an objective manner.