Blog Category | Divorce
What happens to the family business during a divorce?
The time, energy and effort it takes to build a family business can impact everyone in the household. Many people who have these businesses take considerable pride in their success. But that success can sometimes become a liability if the owners decide they’re going...
Continue ReadingConsiderations for social media during and after divorce
Social media is a place where people can share information about just about anything they’re interested in. Some people share even the small details of daily life, while others share only special milestones or vacation pictures. All of this might change if someone is...
Continue Reading2 ways to protect yourself financially during divorce
Your finances will likely be affected when going through a divorce, as some of your assets may be subject to equitable distribution. Besides, if you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse both had incomes, you are about to go into a one-income household. Therefore, you need...
Continue ReadingWhen might child support modifications be necessary?
Child support is designed to ensure that a child’s financial needs are met after their parents separate. However, as circumstances change over time, child support orders may need to be adjusted. Child support modifications can be made when there is a significant change in...
Continue ReadingWhat is the role of a prenuptial agreement during divorce?
A prenuptial agreement is a marital contract negotiated before couples marry. Engaged people may spend weeks finessing the language and negotiating the terms that they decide to include in their prenuptial agreements. For many couples, prenuptial agreements serve as a deterrent to divorce and...
Continue ReadingEmpty nesters may face increased divorce odds
When the children move out of the family home, the parents become empty nesters. For many parents, this happens when their kids go off to college. Once the children turn 18, they enroll in college and move out, creating a dramatic change in the...
Continue ReadingHow to protect your money when divorcing
Divorce can be emotionally taxing and financially complex. Taking proactive steps to protect your assets is crucial to securing your financial future. Here are essential strategies to consider if you want to protect your money when filing for or going through a divorce. Understand...
Continue ReadingWhat happens to a 401(k) in a New Jersey divorce?
Some assets are easy for people to address when they divorce. They may belong to one spouse, and the other may have no interest in them. Some couples have already made arrangements for certain resources by signing prenuptial or postnuptial agreements. Other assets can...
Continue Reading3 ways people can protect themselves via prenuptial agreements
Prenuptial agreements can be a very important form of protection for those beginning a marriage. By reaching certain agreements before formally entering matrimony, spouses protect themselves from scenarios in which they may have messy, expensive divorces. They can protect themselves from personal hardship when...
Continue ReadingHow can you keep divorce costs down?
Divorce is rarely an easy decision. Spouses may have been together for a number of years, and they might have children together. Divorce can also significantly change the financial standing of each spouse. Nonetheless, divorce is often for the best and there are ways...
Continue ReadingRelocating with children: A guide
Relocating after a divorce is a significant life change that can be particularly challenging when children are involved. Balancing your own needs with the well-being of your children requires careful planning and legal guidance. Understanding the legal framework New Jersey law requires parental consent...
Continue ReadingDoes financial success make divorce more or less likely?
Some people blame financial stress for ending their marriage, and they essentially think that they would’ve stayed married if they were wealthier. Maybe they lost their job and couldn’t make ends meet, so their spouse left them to seek a new relationship. This seems...
Continue ReadingEssential considerations in a high-stakes divorce
A high-stakes divorce involving significant assets, complex financial portfolios and high-value interests demands careful planning and attention to detail. The outcome can have profound ramifications on your financial future and personal well-being. Here are some key factors to keep in mind during a high-stakes...
Continue ReadingTips for divorcing a narcissist
Divorcing someone who’s been diagnosed as narcissistic, or who has narcissistic tendencies, can be an emotionally draining experience. These individuals are manipulative and self-centered. They can’t empathize with others and generally only think about what’s easiest and best for their own needs. Because of...
Continue Reading3 ways a gray divorce can change someone’s retirement plans
A divorce inevitably causes significant changes to someone’s daily life and overall lifestyle. Depending on someone’s circumstances, the impact of a divorce could last far longer in some cases than others. For example, some people remain married for decades. During that time, they may...
Continue ReadingThings to keep in mind when divorcing with children
When people get married, they intend for their unions to be lifelong. However, things do not always go as planned, and divorces occur. If there are children, matters become even more complicated. If you and your spouse are divorcing and you are parents, there...
Continue ReadingCompromise and cooperation in divorce and co-parenting
A lot of divorces get out of hand and become nasty, damaging, prolonged and expensive. This is not ideal for anyone, and, especially if you share children, it is better to do what you can to avoid this. As co-parents, you will need to...
Continue ReadingAddressing low financial worth items during divorce
Ensuring you get your fair share of marital property can take up a lot of headspace and cause a lot of stress when you are divorcing. The key to making things easier is remembering that your spouse also has rights and wishes just as...
Continue ReadingThe challenges of divorce when you and your spouse own a business
On its own, divorce is a complex process. However, when a couple co-owns a business, it becomes even more complicated due to the intermingling of personal and professional assets. Dissolving your marriage presents unique challenges for business ownership and requires careful consideration. What will...
Continue Reading4 ways a divorce later in life can get more complicated
If you’re going through a gray divorce in New Jersey, you may wonder how it will affect your life. Going through a divorce later in life can affect you differently than if you’d divorced while you were younger. Unfortunately, many people aren’t prepared for...
Continue ReadingNavigating through a high asset divorce
Sadly, marriages fail every day and when they do, divorce is almost inevitable. Many people involved in a divorce may worry that they will lose everything. This is especially true for those with significant assets. How those assets will be divided depends on the...
Continue ReadingWhen one divorcing spouse makes more than the other
Divorce negotiations can often become contentious, especially when the matter being discussed is alimony and one of the spouses earns significantly more than the other. There was a time when mostly the husband earned more in these situations, but much has changed in recent...
Continue ReadingThree reasons to draft a prenuptial agreement
Prenuptial agreements have grown in popularity, with the number of couples choosing to draft one rising from 3% in 2010 to 15% in 2022. Although prenuptials are no longer the province of only extremely wealthy couples in New Jersey, many people shy away from...
Continue ReadingDealing with executive compensation in a divorce
New Jersey is home to many corporate executives, and inevitably some of them go through a divorce. Executives tend to be people with high incomes and varied assets, and this often makes for a more complicated divorce. One particularly tricky area is dealing with...
Continue ReadingKnow the elements to look for when choosing a divorce mediator
Choosing a mediator is one of the first steps you’ll take when going through the divorce process in New Jersey. When you pick one, they should have a few essential credentials since you’ll be dealing with critical family issues that are emotional and sensitive....
Continue ReadingHow to protect your company’s future in a divorce
Most couples getting married in New Jersey hope these unions last a lifetime, even though about 50% of marriages still end in divorce. Divorcing couples have many factors to consider, including potentially splitting businesses. However, there are a few ways to protect your company’s...
Continue ReadingChoosing the right divorce mediator
If you live in New Jersey and are going through a divorce, you and your spouse may want to consider mediation. This can be a more cooperative approach, but it is important that you choose the right person as mediator. Qualifications First, it is...
Continue ReadingAdapting to your new life after divorce with dignity
Even with a perfect exit strategy and preparation, divorce in New Jersey is still one of the toughest experiences one can go through. It can be a tumultuous time with moments of sadness, guilt, confusion and even anger. In the midst of all that,...
Continue ReadingSay no to posting about your divorce on social media
In New Jersey, navigating divorce can become emotionally challenging, and social media can worsen a problematic situation. During this time, proceed with caution when it comes to social media. The following guidelines help clarify the best ways to engage with social media during your...
Continue ReadingWhat to remember when divorcing with an art collection
Some people living in New Jersey like collecting all sorts of items. Certain individuals enjoy starting and adding to valuable art collections. If you own art and are going through a divorce, worrying about the future of your priceless pieces is understandable. Create a...
Continue ReadingMistakes to avoid in New Jersey divorces
New Jersey residents going through divorce have a lot on their plate. In addition to the emotional turmoil that divorce brings, there are logistical nightmares – new housing, new budgets, co-parenting, and so much more. It’s normal to make mistakes with so much to...
Continue ReadingWhen can divorce benefit your kids?
The end of your marriage in New Jersey is bound to affect your kids. Determining whether this is negative or positive is up to you. Contrary to popular belief, ending your marriage doesn’t have to be a bad thing. It can be the catalyst...
Continue ReadingTips for selling a home during a divorce
During a divorce proceeding in New Jersey, several topics require discussion, including what to do with the family home. For many divorcing couples, their home represents their most significant asset and holds sentimental value for all parties involved. Several options are available for individuals...
Continue ReadingAlimony and child support during a separation
The financial impact of separation can be significant for individuals in New Jersey. One of the biggest challenges a married couple with children faces is how to financially support their children after separation. Contrary to popular belief, child support is not only determined when...
Continue ReadingLearn the differences between a marriage dissolution and divorce
Have you and your spouse decided to end your marriage in New Jersey? Going through this process can be challenging emotionally, and there are several elements you must consider. The first is if you will choose divorce or dissolution. Weighing the pros and cons...
Continue ReadingProblems to expect when divorcing a narcissist
Divorcing a narcissist in New Jersey is complex and challenging as up to 90% of divorce cases center around high-conflict issues. Narcissists often do everything they can to prolong the marriage while blaming their partner for problems. Prepare for the same behaviors Not every...
Continue ReadingAvoiding taxes on divorce settlements in New Jersey
Divorce settlements in New Jersey usually involve some form of alimony payments from one spouse to the other. These divorce settlements might also involve the transfer of property from one person to the other, or large settlements. The IRS has certain requirements when dealing...
Continue ReadingPredicting future divorce
Every year, thousands of married couples in New Jersey experience marital turmoil, often culminating in a divorce. In some cases, the seeds of that disunion can develop slowly and in a way that one or both partners can see in advance. In others, the...
Continue ReadingFinancial infidelity in late-life divorces
Late-life divorces, also known as gray divorces, have become increasingly common for New Jersey couples. One of the reasons that gray divorces have become more prevalent is financial infidelity, a breach of trust in a relationship that occurs when one partner hides financial information...
Continue Reading4 common financial issues common in divorces
When New Jersey couples dissolve their marriage, they expose themselves to several issues. Both parties face emotional and mental stressors during and after the divorce. However, there are several financial issues commonly experienced by divorcees. Splitting existing assets Currently, only nine states in the...
Continue ReadingWhen is mediation not an appropriate method of conflict resolution?
There will be difficulties when it comes to divorce, no matter what the circumstances are. How complex the process is will vary from couple to couple, depending on many factors. Mediation, an alternative to the traditional litigation process and a form of alternative dispute...
Continue ReadingTypes of legal pathways for New Jersey divorces
Divorce isn’t uncommon for New Jersey residents, but that doesn’t make it any easier. During this time of emotional highs and lows, individuals often make decisions based on what friends and family did in similar situations. Or, in some cases, overly dramatic depictions in...
Continue ReadingDivorce mediation and arbitration in New Jersey
When divorcing couples in New Jersey and around the country discuss thorny matters like spousal support and property division, they are not always able to reach an agreement at the negotiating table. Taking divorce cases to court is always an option when an amicable...
Continue ReadingHow to handle divorce when you have a medical practice
As a medical practice owner in New Jersey, you have a lot on your plate. But what happens if you get divorced? How do you handle it and what implications does it have for your business? In this blog post, you’ll find some tips...
Continue ReadingFinancial considerations for high-asset divorce
One of the significant concerns of couples beginning the divorce process in New Jersey is finances. For wealthy individuals going through a high-asset divorce, these considerations are often more complex, needing additional preparation and time for negotiations. Understanding their own financial state Before the...
Continue ReadingThe top 3 ways to manage emotions of divorce in New Jersey
The end of a relationship is a time of great upheaval and change. It can be extremely stressful while it’s happening and barely gets easier after it’s over. However, this is the time you’ll need to make some of the most important decisions of...
Continue ReadingNegotiating a divorce settlement in New Jersey
New Jersey has an equitable distribution law that requires marital assets to be divided fairly but not necessarily equally in a divorce. Spouses who would prefer to avoid public and costly court battles can establish for themselves how their property should be divided by...
Continue ReadingImportant steps to protect your finances during divorce
Going through a divorce in New Jersey is stressful, but you need to be proactive to protect yourself. One of your biggest priorities involves your finances. Take these steps to protect your money during a divorce. Do an inventory of your assets You will...
Continue ReadingHow to prepare for a divorce in New Jersey
Divorce is a stressful, emotionally draining process. Many people are often unprepared for this legal process in New Jersey, which can consequently have a profound effect on every aspect of their lives. Understand how the process works In New Jersey, there are two types...
Continue ReadingWhen your spouse doesn’t want to get divorced
Divorce is a difficult decision. If your spouse has yet to reach the mindset you are in, they may have reservations about getting a divorce. By revealing the reality of your desire to divorce, your spouse will better understand why it may be the...
Continue ReadingWorried about divorce? How to protect your assets in New Jersey
If you are getting divorced and have significant assets in New Jersey, it is vital to take steps to protect them. Divorces can be very contentious, and it is not uncommon for one spouse to try to take advantage of the other. Make a...
Continue ReadingA less contentious approach to divorce
There are different paths to divorce that you and your spouse can choose to take. While one way is to battle it out in a New Jersey courtroom, you can take a less contentious approach through mediation. Mediation, which can be used for the...
Continue ReadingJewelry and divorce proceedings
Property division could become a contentious issue during a New Jersey divorce. Things do not have to be difficult when both parties are willing to compromise. Sometimes, the compromise center is on how to divide expensive jewelry collections. Jewelry and property division Jewelry may...
Continue ReadingHow businesses are impacted by divorces
A divorce can be a complicated affair regardless of your net worth or whether it is settled inside or outside of a New Jersey courtroom. However, if you own a business, ending your marriage may result in chaos for workers, investors and others who...
Continue ReadingWhy you should stay off social media during divorce
With one study showing that 1 in 5 divorces listed Facebook as a factor in the split, residents of New Jersey who have decided to end their marriage should be wary of how they use social media during the process. They might even consider...
Continue ReadingHaving a better divorce
As much as both spouses wish their union lasts, some New Jersey marriages head for divorce. Couples could grow apart or find themselves disagreeing over financial and other matters. Sadly, a marriage may involve abuse or infidelity, making remaining in the marriage untenable for...
Continue ReadingHow to do well during your divorce
Although no divorce is easy, there are steps that you may be able to take to end your marriage the right way. For example, you can help yourself, your spouse and your children by showing copious amounts of empathy throughout the process. Showing empathy...
Continue ReadingThe divorce process in New Jersey
New Jersey divorce laws give separating partners a chance to fight for their rights and the property they deserve. And although every marriage is unique, and there are several different ways to get divorced, the general process is as follows: Filing a divorce petition...
Continue ReadingTips for telling your children you’re getting a divorce
A New Jersey divorce is stressful enough, but if you have children, it can present even more challenges. You can use these tips to let your kids know that your family dynamic will be changing. Do it with your spouse You and your spouse...
Continue ReadingShould you get a prenuptial agreement?
Before getting married in New Jersey, many couples create a prenuptial agreement. This type of agreement can be helpful in many situations, but it’s not always necessary. If you are wondering if a prenuptial agreement is right for you, here’s what you need to...
Continue ReadingWhat are some of the most common predictors of divorce?
Although married New Jersey couples vow to stay together “til death do us part,” many end up in divorce. Certain things serve as predictors of divorce. These are a few of the most common. Getting married too young or over age 32 A study...
Continue ReadingWhat is a certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA)?
A certified divorce financial analyst or CDFA helps divorcing couples and their lawyers come to a fair divorce settlement. The CDFA has extensive knowledge of tax laws and asset distribution and can assist with financial planning during and after divorce. If you’re a New...
Continue ReadingHow is divorce different later in life?
A divorce later in life may avert complications such as child custody battles. However, other challenges arise with the split of a couple over the age of 50. What must spouses consider when maneuvering through a “gray divorce?” Greater difficulty in disentangling lives As...
Continue ReadingWhy life insurance can be necessary in New Jersey divorce
Are you contemplating or going through a divorce in New Jersey? Consider your rights regarding the life insurance policy you or your partner has. Here’s why it’s important. Life insurance and divorce in New Jersey There are two vital details about life insurance that...
Continue ReadingDivorcing a millionaire requires close scrutiny of each asset
If you’ve decided to split from your marriage partner and get a divorce in New Jersey, you’ll need to follow a specific legal process. However, when you’re divorcing a millionaire, it’s also essential to understand the financial ramifications involved with your decision. Understanding your...
Continue ReadingDo stepparents have custody rights after divorce?
A divorce with biological children presents custody issues between biological parents. In a subsequent divorce involving stepchildren, custody may prove trickier. Stepparents may provide care to children for years, but does that give them rights to continue having a relationship with the children after...
Continue ReadingWhy illness can sometimes lead to divorce
Some New Jersey couples might find themselves considering divorce when one of them is suffering a serious illness. They might wonder if the illness itself leads to the end of the marriage. However, while the complications brought about by illness can be a factor...
Continue ReadingHow to keep real property in a divorce
If you choose to end your marriage, there is a chance that you will cede control of your New Jersey home to your spouse. There is also a chance that you will cede other properties that you own at the time of the divorce....
Continue ReadingWhat happens to a jointly-owned business in a divorce
After years of hard work, you may worry about what will happen to your business when you get divorced. If you and your spouse both own your company, here is what you need to know about how your divorce will impact this important asset....
Continue ReadingDo you need a prenuptial agreement in New Jersey?
Prenuptial agreements can be a very divisive subject among New Jersey couples. According to a new survey by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers on prenup agreements, the divide may be generational. The study shows that millennials were one of the main reasons that...
Continue ReadingHow divorce affects college financial aid
After a divorce, there are several things you and your former spouse will have to divide as fairly as possible. One of these things may be your child’s college education expenses. If your child is currently enrolled in college or will be entering college...
Continue ReadingValuing a professional practice during a divorce
Professionals in New Jersey should understand that their practice may be viewed as a marital asset during any divorce proceeding. That means that, like the house, retirement accounts and checking account, it will potentially be divided with a portion of the value given to...
Continue ReadingHow social media can be used in a divorce
Social media has changed the legal landscape in a variety of ways. One example is that social media comments and uploads are often used as part of divorce proceedings. According to one study, 50% of participants found that social media negatively impacted their relationships....
Continue ReadingModifying child custody orders
Divorced parents should have the best interests of their children in mind. This may be even more true in deciding child custody and making modifications to the child custody order Parents may not find it easy to make decisions about when and where their...
Continue ReadingAre these signs of hidden assets?
When going through divorce, you have to keep your eye on several different matters all at once. This can create an enormous emotional and mental burden for you. Unfortunately, some spouses may attempt to take advantage of this by hiding assets. But what is...
Continue ReadingHow can I maintain financial health during divorce?
Unavoidable changes to your finances occur during divorce. However, the decisions you make can have a significant impact on your financial health in the future. As explained by U.S. News & World Report, divorce impacts everything from taxes to household income. Here are a...
Continue ReadingHow is divorce different later in life?
Although the divorce rate overall in the United States has declined in recent decades, the divorce rate for couples 50 and older continues to rise. To begin with, people are living longer and those who opt for later-in-life divorce are ready to start a...
Continue ReadingIs nesting a good choice for our family?
Divorce is a complicated and often emotional process. However, the process of building your life back after a divorce can be just as complicated. Particularly if your divorce involves minor children, figuring out a new rhythm to family life requires a lot of trial...
Continue ReadingFiling a motion to increase child support after job loss
If your work situation has changed for the worse and you now make less money, you may be wondering if you can receive more child support. After all, you do not want your child to suffer from your income loss. The combined amount you...
Continue ReadingHow should divorced parents navigate financial aid?
Newly divorced parents have several shifts to adjust to. For instance, how should they handle helping their shared college-bound child apply for financial aid? Finaid provides insights into the intersection between financial aid and former spouses. Learn how to help your child and yourself...
Continue ReadingDoes divorce affect higher income families in a different way?
Divorce has many consequences. For many families, the biggest impact is the emotional toll it can take due to the changes within the family structure. According to Time, studies show that the impact of divorce can be worse for higher-income families, which is shocking...
Continue ReadingPreserving retirement benefits during a divorce
People work hard to accumulate retirement benefits to sustain their desired lifestyle in the future. Divorce can threaten to upend retirement planning and obliterate its value. Preserving retirement savings is critical to people’s ability to reestablish their independence and prepare for the future. When...
Continue Reading3 ways a postnuptial agreement may save your marriage
Even though you still love your husband or wife, your marriage may seem to have more rocky patches than smooth ones. Before deciding to walk into divorce court, you may want to try to save your marriage. Drafting a postnuptial agreement may help you...
Continue ReadingPerjury in divorce court
Sometimes, one spouse becomes so desperate or vindictive that he or she provides false information to the court. Doing so constitutes a felony in virtually all U.S. courts, including New Jersey. People found guilty of committing this crime could pay fines and earn criminal...
Continue ReadingIs parental alienation obvious?
As a parent going through divorce, you prioritize your child even in the most difficult of times. Unfortunately, your co-parent may not do the same. In fact, some co-parents may try to weaponize your child against you. They may even try to actively sabotage...
Continue ReadingHow does New Jersey define cohabitation?
When you pay someone alimony in New Jersey, you may question whether you must continue to do so if your ex has moved on and now shares a life with someone else. Until 2014, you would have had to prove that your former spouse...
Continue ReadingWhat does the Termination of Child Support Law mean for you?
The Termination of Child Support Act became New Jersey law as of Feb. 1, 2017. Under this law, a parent’s child and medical support obligations end when the child becomes 19 years old. As explained by the New Jersey Department of Child Support, however,...
Continue ReadingDo grandparents have visitation rights after divorce?
When your child is divorcing, you want to do whatever you can to help him or her through this difficult time. You may also have many questions, including questions about your grandchildren. Will they be all right? Where will they live? Most importantly, will...
Continue ReadingWhy divorce filings increase after the holidays
The anticipation let alone the reality of the holidays often contribute to a great deal of stress for people. For marriages already under strain, a holiday season may put an end to any hopes of moving forward together. Many spouses make the choice to...
Continue ReadingMoney, lies and marital infidelities
When a spouse wants to surprise a partner with a special gift, he or she might try to hide the purchase until after giving the gift. Most people would agree this falls into an acceptable realm of hiding purchases. However, other situations involving hidden...
Continue Reading3 ways a prenup may strengthen your marriage
A prenuptial agreement, or prenup, is a private agreement between you and your partner that sets forth a fair plan for property division, alimony payments, debt obligations and other estate planning concerns should you end up separating. If you are preparing for your wedding...
Continue ReadingHow can you approach the idea of obtaining a prenup?
If a divorce dissolves, you could potentially lose all of your assets. A prenuptial agreement serves as a protective document. If you accumulate separate property, you can keep it even after a divorce. The way to make sure that your prenup is valid, you...
Continue ReadingWhat will ending our marriage do to our business?
Property division is often one of the most contentious aspects of divorce, especially for business owners. If you and your spouse co-own a business, ending your marriage can be extremely complicated. Joint ownership does not necessarily mean equal ownership, and you may not have...
Continue ReadingHow can you overcome a grudge to healthier divorce?
During a divorce, it is easy to focus on the sadness and anger. It is normal to feel bitter, but the hostility and resentment may consume all your positive feelings. Mayo Clinic warns that you can harm your present relationships and compromise your connections...
Continue ReadingWhen should I take a divorce to trial?
In the vast majority of divorces, it is more advantageous to try and negotiate divorce terms and settle as compared to taking the divorce to court. Taking a divorce to court can be extremely expensive both in time and money, and often is very...
Continue Reading4 steps for obtaining a QDRO in New Jersey
If you or your soon-to-be ex-spouse has retirement accounts, you likely need to divide them as part of your divorce. For plans that fall under the Employee Retirement Income Security Act, obtaining a qualified domestic relations order is essential. A QDRO is a court...
Continue ReadingWill claims of child abuse affect your divorce settlement?
If you are going through a divorce in New Jersey, you may have concerns that your spouse will claim that you participated in a form of child abuse. He or she may make such claims with the intent of getting a settlement in his...
Continue ReadingDo you know how college financial aid works for divorced parents?
Sometimes, college applicants feel that they must clear several obstacles to secure financial aid. Applicants with divorced parents have additional hurdles to conquer. Divorced parents should see what U.S. News & World Report says about navigating the financial aid process. Misinformation could result in...
Continue ReadingWhat New Jersey considers when awarding alimony
Unless you were the main breadwinner in your relationship, you may have cause to seek alimony when your New Jersey marriage comes to an end. You may feel particularly inclined to do so if you sacrificed your own career or education for the sake...
Continue ReadingHow do you handle a narcissistic ex-spouse?
Some individuals meet divorce with a fair amount of spite and anger, but what happens when your ex-spouse exhibits narcissistic behavior? The Mayo Clinic notes that those with the symptoms of this disorder have feelings of superiority, are easily insulted and often expect special...
Continue ReadingWhy do you need a prenup?
New Jersey couples like you aspire for long, healthy relationships. But many of us understand that this does not always happen. If you get a divorce, the ramifications can last throughout the following years. A prenuptial agreement, or prenup, helps mitigate that damage. But...
Continue ReadingWant a quicker divorce? A no-fault divorce may not be the answer
Divorce laws vary from state to state and while all states now have a process for no-fault divorces, it may take substantially longer if you decide to go that route. Keep reading for more information on no-fault divorces, as well as grounds for divorce...
Continue ReadingCan I save money on my divorce?
One of the more overlooked aspects of divorce is the cost. Of course, many people worry about child support payments and potential alimony payments, but divorce itself can be quite expensive on its own. In certain circumstances, the cost of the divorce itself may...
Continue ReadingHow can I cope with a new divorce?
The effects of divorce touch upon every aspect of a person’s life. If you are recently divorced, you may find yourself wondering about the future. You may also have financial concerns or concerns about how it will impact your children. Divorce also has a...
Continue ReadingYour child wants to live with the other parent. Now what?
You and your ex finally worked out the details of your divorce, and you have primary custody of your shared children. Recently, your son shared that he wants to live with the other parent. What is the fairest way to respond to this news?...
Continue Reading3 social media mistakes to avoid amid divorce
Going through a divorce may make you feel lonely, anxious or depressed, and you may turn to social media to vent or feel connected with other people. If you are not careful when interacting online, though, you run the risk of the things you...
Continue ReadingLife insurance in divorce can be confusing at times
There are many things on the table when a couple’s marriage is no longer working and they decide that it’s coming to an end. Divorce brings with it many decisions New Jersey couples have to make about their separation and forging ahead as singles....
Continue ReadingNew Jersey couples setting popular divorce trends
It seems some couples who are ending their marriages are setting some trends. New Jersey couples who are heading for divorce apparently have some things in common and are setting some new indicators moving ahead as single individuals. Here are some of those trends...
Continue ReadingQuestions millennials should ask before deciding to divorce
Marriage breakdowns can happen at any age. New Jersey couples who are in their 20s and find themselves discussing divorce should ask themselves a few pertinent questions before making the ultimate decision. By visiting these issues, it may help the divorce process to go...
Continue ReadingWho’s responsible for credit card debt in a divorce?
Reviewing a list of assets and debts is something a divorcing couple must do. Having to discuss debts may be particularly difficult when a New Jersey couple is going through a divorce since very often, the financial picture is something that contributed to the...
Continue ReadingDivorce may actually make relationships, parenting better
There may be times when the best way to keep a relationship intact is to separate. Some couples have said they became better friends and had better relationships with each other after divorce. Some New Jersey spouses might actually excel at divorce and become...
Continue ReadingDoes divorce have an impact on adult children’s marriages?
There’s an old adage that says the fruit doesn’t fall far from the tree. But can the same be said about divorce? Are New Jersey adult children that come from parents who divorce more likely to end up divorcing as well? Experts have found...
Continue ReadingProtecting kids from an angry parent during divorce
Not all marriages last a lifetime and some parents whose marriages do break down end their unions in an atmosphere of volatile emotions and high conflict. In New Jersey and elsewhere, this can be particularly difficult for children whose parents are going through this...
Continue ReadingShould you divorce or stay together for the kids’ sake?
Parents want to do what’s best for their kids and often make sacrifices in doing so. But when parents — of older children in particular — are in an unhappy marriage and decide to put off divorce for the sake of their children, they...
Continue ReadingFinancial security in the midst of divorce
These days marriage doesn’t always mean “til death do us part.” Since the stigma attached to divorce has all but been erased, more couples who have been in unhappy marriages for years are deciding to go their separate ways and suddenly people in their...
Continue ReadingIs it best to settle a divorce in or out of court?
Experts says the best scenario for a couple who is parting ways is to try to end things amicably. Sometimes, however, New Jersey couples who are in the throes of divorce may have trouble agreeing on things. The question then is, should they try...
Continue ReadingHow many marriages actually end in divorce?
The common notion for quite some time now is that about 50% of all marriages don’t last. But is that really a true picture of marriage and divorce? Divorce rates — including those in New Jersey — peaked in the 1970s and ’80s, but...
Continue ReadingWhat happens to the engagement ring in a divorce situation?
An engagement of marriage is usually sealed with a ring. An engagement ring is meant to be a symbol of a couple’s intention to marry, but what happens to the ring when the marriage has fizzled and a couple decides to divorce? It’s not...
Continue ReadingDivorce can be costly, but it could be more costly not to divorce
A couple who is ending a marriage has many things to think about and one of those concerns finances. Divorce in New Jersey can often mean a significant financial outlay. In fact, the average cost for divorce in the United States is about $15,000...
Continue ReadingDivorce involving a child presents unique challenges
Breaking up with a spouse is never an easy process in New Jersey. This is particularly the case when the two people getting divorced have a young child who is stuck in the middle. Fortunately, some tips might make the process of getting a...
Continue ReadingHelpful advice to make divorce less stressful
It goes without saying that no couple gets married with the intent of someday ending the marriage. However, this is exactly what happens to nearly half of all marriages in New Jersey and across the United States. Divorce is not only very complicated, but...
Continue ReadingWho is responsible for credit card debt in a divorce?
When a couple parts ways, not only are their assets on the table, but so are their debts. Frankly, creditors don’t care who pays the debt as long as it gets paid. Couples thinking about divorce need to understand who is responsible for credit...
Continue ReadingSafeguarding your assets in the divorce process in New Jersey
Being financially stable is a goal to which everyone aspires. So, those who find themselves in a divorce situation, should think about protecting their assets. New Jersey is an equitable distribution state and as such when couples divorce, marital property is not automatically split...
Continue ReadingShaping a child’s divorce story may create healthier adults
It’s a fact that children are often the ones who are most affected when their parents’ marriages end. The way New Jersey parents react to their own divorce situations may actually affect how children view the situation, according to experts and it can either...
Continue ReadingDoing the right things to make the divorce process smoother
The old song, “Breaking Up is Hard to Do,” isn’t too far from the truth. When it comes to divorce, there are things to do and things not to do to try to make the process as painless as possible. When New Jersey couples...
Continue ReadingIs National Divorce Month a real thing?
Ending a marriage is no laughing matter, so New Jersey residents may be a bit taken aback by recent news headlines. National Divorce Month may sound like a joke, but many experts say there is some truth to the unofficial term. While certainly, there...
Continue ReadingHeaded for a holiday divorce? You’re not alone, say experts
Christmas is right around the corner, and a new year is set to begin. Everywhere a person might go, there is some sort of holiday cheer. New Jersey residents might find themselves secretly feeling a bit annoyed and overwhelmed. The holiday season brings along...
Continue ReadingThere is no normal: A holiday divorce mantra
Even in modern America, it is not unusual for the holiday season to be idealized. Sometimes, it seems like every commercial on television shows the perfect family enjoying a perfect holiday, and parents may feel unreasonable pressure to live up to this unrealistic representation....
Continue ReadingSingle Bell Rock: Divorce and the holidays
Winter is fast approaching, and some New Jersey residents have already spotted some snowflakes. The holiday season has officially begun, and many people are looking forward to celebrating with family and friends. For families dealing with divorce, it is natural to feel sad or...
Continue ReadingHow will divorce affect your children?
Experts say that may be up to the divorcing parents. While certainly, a divorce will change the family dynamic, and children will have to get used to the “new normal,” it turns out that divorce can be made less traumatic on a child if...
Continue ReadingDivorce and child support: is there such a thing as too much?
New Jersey residents tune in with the rest of the nation to watch Good Morning, America, a long-running television program that mixes news and current events with pop culture, fashion trends, recipes and other topics of interest. Through the years, the show has seen...
Continue ReadingProperty division during retirement can be tough on women
Gray divorces, which we have discussed previously on this blog, continue to increase in regularity. While many find the freedom provided through a late-life marriage dissolution exhilarating, others find the process financially debilitating. Sadly, this is especially true for women. By taking the following...
Continue ReadingSome common contributors to divorce
Although some reports indicate that the divorce rate is declining, it still feels like divorce is more prevalent than ever. In fact, statistics show that nearly half of all marriages end in divorce. The average length of a marriage prior to divorce is seven...
Continue ReadingWhat brutal divorce tactics should you watch out for?
It may be a sad reality, but divorce often brings out the worst in people. Those who have been emotionally or financially hurt can lash out, making resolution of important marriage dissolution issues seemingly impossible. This can make the divorce process longer and costlier...
Continue ReadingChild custody and the character and fitness evaluation
While the financial ramifications of divorce can be significant, many New Jersey couples find themselves more concerned about something more important: their children. After all, the outcome of a child custody dispute can lay the framework for an individual’s relationship with his or her...
Continue ReadingChild support modification may be within reach
As the posts on this blog often point out, divorce can have very significant financial ramifications for New Jersey residents. Those who are crafty in their legal dealing regarding marriage dissolution can find themselves exiting marriage on firm financial footing. Those who fail to...
Continue ReadingChild custody and the best interests standard
Child custody is one of the most highly contested divorce legal issues. It is not limited to those who are dissolving their marriages, as parents of children born out of wedlock can also face child custody disputes. Oftentimes in these situations each parent believes...
Continue ReadingGetting through a divorce if you are over the age of 50
Many of our readers in New Jersey have probably heard the term “grey divorce,” which, generally speaking, usually involves people over the age of 50 going through a divorce, as opposed to younger individuals. Many people have probably also heard the common refrain that...
Continue ReadingCrucial tips to get through a divorce case in New Jersey
Many New Jersey residents who are considering filing for divorce may feel quite a bit of trepidation about the move. As a result, they have many questions that they feel need to be answered. A recent article had a number of tips for those...
Continue ReadingWhat should you know about feelings and emotions in a divorce?
Many people who are going through a divorce in New Jersey are able to focus on the practical aspects of the case, including ways to address legal issues such as property division, child custody, child support and alimony. This focus can be useful in...
Continue ReadingAvoiding impulsive decisions in a divorce case
Being involved in a divorce case can be a highly-charged emotional experience. In any given case, the divorcing couple will need to address potentially contentious issues such as property division, alimony, child custody and child support, among others. When emotions run high, it is...
Continue ReadingHigh-profile divorce case comes to a conclusion
Our readers in New Jersey are probably aware of one of the most high-profile divorce cases in the Northeast, and perhaps the country: the divorce of Donald Trump, Jr. and his wife. Any news story with the name “Trump” in it is at the...
Continue ReadingCould financial secrets lead to a divorce?
The cause of any given divorce can vary considerably. Sometimes people just “grow apart,” while in other situations there is some affirmative act that leads one spouse to divorce the other. A recent news article took a look at one potential cause of divorce:...
Continue ReadingWhat are the basics about child support?
When couples who have children begin the divorce process to end their married relationship, they are probably fully aware that child support will be one of the important issues to address in the legal process. However, many of those same couples have questions about...
Continue ReadingWhy do married couples get divorced?
When some couples in New Jersey are faced with the realistic possibility of ending a marriage in a divorce, they will often think, “Where did it go wrong?” After all, no one gets married with plans on ultimately getting a divorce. But, the reality,...
Continue ReadingIs the divorce rate in America really dropping?
For decades most people in New Jersey have heard the common refrain that approximately 50 percent of all marriages in America end in a divorce. However, a recent report noted that this is not actually true anymore. Is the divorce rate in America really...
Continue ReadingHow can you deal with emotions of a divorce during the holidays?
The holiday season is upon us, and for most people this can be a great time of year to visit with friends and family. However, it can also be a time of stress as well. This is particularly true for those New Jersey residents...
Continue ReadingSeeing signs that your marriage might be headed for divorce?
No one in New Jersey gets married thinking that it is possible that the union will end in divorce. However, we all know that this is a possibility in many marriages. Sometimes, the realization that the relationship is headed for a divorce happens quickly....
Continue ReadingHow common is divorce in America?
For decades now many people have said that it is common knowledge that the divorce rate in America is about 50 percent, meaning that half of all marriages end in divorce. But, is that really the case? How common is divorce in America? A...
Continue ReadingElderly people weigh the consequences of “gray divorce”
Like most major decisions in life, divorce comes with “pros” and “cons” to consider. For instance, couples with minor children will want to consider how the divorce will affect the lives of their children, particularly when it comes to different child custody arrangements. Or,...
Continue ReadingThe basics about prenuptial agreements
Most of our readers in New Jersey know that prenuptial agreements – or “prenups” – are agreements that couples enter into prior to marriage to come to terms on potential issues if the marriage ends in divorce. Many people probably think, “That’s not very...
Continue ReadingThe legal requirements to pursue a divorce in New Jersey
For many years the rate of divorces in America was rising. As a result, most people began to think that they could just get a divorce whenever and wherever they wanted. However, in New Jersey, like all other states, there are certain legal requirements...
Continue ReadingHow can I get my parenting time enforced?
Although it is generally speaking better when New Jersey parents who are living apart are able to get along, in many cases, they simply are not able to do so. This is not always a mutual thing. Sometimes, because he or she simply does...
Continue ReadingBaseball star locked in child support dispute
Baseball fans in New Jersey are probably familiar with Miguel Cabrera, who is a Major League first baseman. Some may have even heard that he is now in a battle off the field with a former girlfriend. Although Cabrera is married and has three...
Continue ReadingParenting plans in New Jersey
Even when both parents who are going through a divorce or are no longer living together are going to be able to agree on custody and even the basics of who is going to have what time with the child, there still can be...
Continue ReadingWhat a guardian ad litem does in a child custody case
It is always a good thing, both for the couple and the couple’s children, when two parents in the course of a divorce or other family law disputes can get along with respect to child custody and visitation plans. However, a New Jersey resident...
Continue ReadingHow do I modify my New Jersey child support order?
Unlike many other court decisions, a New Jersey parent can ask for a family law court to revisit a child support order from time to time. This is because New Jersey law recognizes that the circumstances of parents and their children oftentimes change, and...
Continue ReadingWhat will a court look for when determining custody?
Because the focus of any custody order is the best interests of the children involved, and because what is in the best interests of a child can change, it makes sense that New Jersey courts should consider a number of factors before deciding upon...
Continue ReadingObtaining a restraining order in New Jersey
Any married couple in New Jersey, no matter their socioeconomic background, culture or beliefs, is susceptible to domestic violence, whether as a victim or as a perpetrator. Just because it can affect anyone, no one should think domestic violence is “okay” or something someone...
Continue ReadingHow college education expenses get divided in New Jersey
As previous posts on this blog have discussed, New Jersey has child support guidelines that are supposed to help courts come to an amount each parent should be responsible for in order to allow their children to maintain the same standard of living as...
Continue ReadingThe grounds for a divorce in New Jersey
Many married couples throughout New Jersey experience bumps and challenges in their relationships that can test the commitment of the partners to their shared martial experience. While in most cases partners can work through their differences and emerge from their conflicts with strong martial...
Continue ReadingWhat are extraordinary expenses in New Jersey child support?
Most parents in New Jersey understand that if they end up getting a divorce there is a likelihood that one of them may end up paying some form of child support if the other parent is given the right to be the primary residential...
Continue ReadingState Supreme Court changes custody relocation standard
New Jersey divorce issues, such as child custody, are not necessarily resolved with the decree or settlement. These issues sometimes resurface after the end of the marriage. The state Supreme Court addressed one of these issues and reversed its legal standard for ruling on...
Continue ReadingWorking to keep divorce from affecting your job performance
Many legal, financial and emotional challenges accompany divorce in New Jersey. Limiting the impact of these matters on your performance at work is difficult but essential to avoid lost employment or income at the end of a marriage. Work should be restricted to work,...
Continue ReadingNew Jersey changes relocation laws for divorced parents
When a couple with children divorces, one parent may be granted primary custody of the child while the other gets visitation and is asked to pay child support. A major post-divorce issue for many of these couples is relocation. The custodial parent may want...
Continue ReadingWhat are some essentials for prenuptial agreements?
When a couple in New Jersey is planning their wedding, they may be consumed with finding the right caterer, florist and venue. However, they should also give some thought to their post-wedding lives before they walk down the aisle, including drafting a prenuptial agreement....
Continue ReadingBeware these divorce myths
A divorce may be challenging and tumultuous. It may be more difficult if spouses in New Jersey are influenced by long-standing myths about this process. These falsehoods can have financial consequences. First, adultery has no impact on property division or spousal support. New Jersey...
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